老公刚刚又给我打来一个电话

问我how are you doing。我说okay。他说哭了吗，我说没有。他说很好。然后就问我中午吃了什么，今天的胃口有没有比昨天好。然后就bla bla他在做什么。

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• Keep be strong and it's your time to make him FALL IN LOVE -purplelily- ♀ (281 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:37:43

• MM,该你用点甜言蜜语的时候了。 问你干什么，你就说：我在想你啊， -边炒边赚- ♀ (102 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:39:37

• 高招! -pretty_woman2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:49:22

• 真使出来，这男的对女的感情就淡下去罗~不出几年就完蛋。 -sweetowl- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:02:14

• 男人对恶言恶语敏感，对甜言蜜语不太感冒，甜言蜜语只能偶尔用用。 -流水无痕- ♀ (40 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:06:30

• no,no. It's time for her to show him she is fime without him -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:14:21

• 看你急的。being independent doesn''t mean ignoring him. -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:27:05

• Well, he is the one wants to be left alone, asking his own wife -LittleHer- ♀ (152 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:33:29

• she has offended him for 8 years. now she becomes a victim? -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:39:34

• I only see how much she loves him, and he knows that. -LittleHer- ♀ (201 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:52:18

• her insecurity comes from her own family, not from him. -流水无痕- ♀ (145 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:09

• 女人独立不是简单地自给自足，而是能够知道自己的不足 -流水无痕- ♀ (46 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:55:42

• Nobody is perfect, that's why people fight. But if a -LittleHer- ♀ (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:51

• yes, definately now he wants to change because he gets tired of -流水无痕- ♀ (107 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:03:14

• + gets tired of her baggage -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:04:05

• Well, did he talk about it with her and try to help her? -LittleHer- ♀ (192 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:08:34

• his only fault was he got married with her without knowing her -流水无痕- ♀ (274 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:22:03

• It's not that simple. life has more into it. -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:45

• so we need to clarify and obey rules to make it simple. -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:31

• Sure. Good idea. -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:33:37

• talking about it with her and trying to help her should happen b -流水无痕- ♀ (119 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:32

• +happen before marriage. -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:27:37

• Ton's of people have baggage. A loving spouse will know -LittleHer- ♀ (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:19

• I am sure too. but the bonus can't fill what's missing in the ba -流水无痕- ♀ (172 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:35:05

• So he has bad coping skill. OK. I'm just telling her -LittleHer- ♀ (58 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:41:31

• 以其人之道还治其人之身也要看时机的。搞不好等于给他 -流水无痕- ♀ (63 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:49:13

• 我要下线了。小妇人谢谢你孜孜不倦和我灌了这么多的水 -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:52:14

• Hehe... have a good evening. I need to go too. -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:54:43

• 要是我，我还是会汗毛竖起来。生活里，除了我，难道你不能有其他的吗？ -sansemao- ♀ (74 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:58:20

• 说得好，顶一个，没有对方，自己也要懂得找乐子～ -schlumpf- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:33:29

• 我也顶这个。况且目前的状况来看这么也不灵 -2008vgirl- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 19:15:45

• 看来你劳工还是很关心你的，就是被你哭烦了。以后“坚强”些吧。 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:46:20

• 在聊聊就好了呀,毕竟他也不想RUIN了他的八周年庆. -pretty_woman2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:50:58

• 为你高兴 -青草青青- ♀ (163 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:51:31

• 还是要想办法要个孩子。有了孩子，你们的生活会充实些。 -taiwaninlaw- ♀ (66 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:52:14

• 有了孩子，她可能也不会那么林妹妹了，孩子忙的团团转，谁还巴望这老公来猜她的心啊。 -边炒边赚- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 13:54:52

• 她不是不想要，这有点哪壶不开。。。 -LoveUrself- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:19:26

• 流产是有希望在怀孕的，注意保胎。 -taiwaninlaw- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:43:48

• I think you have depression that effects your marriage. -pangyaya- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:13:31

• I think you have depression that affects your judgement. -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:16:39

• 要保持婚姻的长久和新鲜，你有多爱他根本不重要。 -小曼- ♀ (58 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:33:16

• 你说的这是fair weather friend, 一个人要时时刻刻都这样，没病没灾的，要爱人何用？ -LoveUrself- ♀ (62 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:40:51

• 爱是做到这一点的最强的动力。 -流水无痕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:43:55

• different factors....you don't want someone perfect as you -chaya- ♀ (42 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:48:08

• I think you should try to celebrate 8th anniversary with him if -chaya- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:41:31

• if possible... -chaya- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:45:56

• 你LG不会是中年危机了吧。换我这暴脾气儿，早明挑了： -2006MOM- ♀ (93 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:18:53

• 自己国家的男人不会这么难伺候吧? --贱精-- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:22:51

• 天下乌鸦一般黑吧：） -2006MOM- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:37:35

• 那也是俺们自己的水墨画! --贱精-- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:46:06

• 那倒是。 -2006MOM- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:54:39

• 33岁的人，哪里来的中年危机啊 -为什么说变就变- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:24:27

• 那就是７年之痒后遗症。。。 -2006MOM- ♀ (92 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:36:39

• 这叫pretend to be nice，他是觉得内疚而已 -非典型性淑女- ♀ (232 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:30:39

• well said -梅酒- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:44:49

• only time can save them...he need time to sort it out -非典型性淑女- ♀ (28 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:48:26

• 复习了一下你的posts。我觉得你有轻微的depression。你最 -洋葱头儿妈妈- ♀ (656 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:46:35

• well said! -非典型性淑女- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:50:31

• 呵呵，葱头妈最近跳坑都跳得脚麻了 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:52:10

• 我日夜颠倒，无所事事阿。 -洋葱头儿妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:54:37

• 为啥? 孩子闹的？ -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 17:56:08

• 都想s儿子了。俺出差在亚洲呢。现在等着开会呢。：-（ -洋葱头儿妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 18:03:20

• 抱抱，同病相怜。俺不久也要出差了。 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 21:32:24

• I don't think you did anything wrong. I think you need to have a -gzlady- ♀ (452 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 18:06:07

• If right now I tell him he is being rediculous -为什么说变就变- ♀ (151 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 19:44:25

• 回复：If right now I tell him he is being rediculous--don't say any -julie116- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 21:57:01

• 回复：老公刚刚又给我打来一个电话 -zywn- ♀ (326 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 18:41:32