Well, he is the one wants to be left alone, asking his own wife

来源: LittleHer 于 2009-09-16 14:33:29 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (152 bytes)

not to come home. Don't you think that's offensive. If she wants to be respected, she has to be self-respect. Or she'll get hurt again in the future.

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• she has offended him for 8 years. now she becomes a victim? -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:39:34

• I only see how much she loves him, and he knows that. -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (201 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:52:18

• her insecurity comes from her own family, not from him. -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (145 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:09

• 女人独立不是简单地自给自足，而是能够知道自己的不足 -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:55:42

• Nobody is perfect, that's why people fight. But if a -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:51

• yes, definately now he wants to change because he gets tired of -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (107 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:03:14

• + gets tired of her baggage -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:04:05

• Well, did he talk about it with her and try to help her? -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (192 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:08:34

• his only fault was he got married with her without knowing her -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (274 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:22:03

• It's not that simple. life has more into it. -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:45

• so we need to clarify and obey rules to make it simple. -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:31

• Sure. Good idea. -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:33:37

• talking about it with her and trying to help her should happen b -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (119 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:32

• +happen before marriage. -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:27:37

• Ton's of people have baggage. A loving spouse will know -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:19

• I am sure too. but the bonus can't fill what's missing in the ba -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (172 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:35:05

• So he has bad coping skill. OK. I'm just telling her -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (58 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:41:31

• 以其人之道还治其人之身也要看时机的。搞不好等于给他 -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:49:13

• 我要下线了。小妇人谢谢你孜孜不倦和我灌了这么多的水 -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:52:14

• Hehe... have a good evening. I need to go too. -LittleHer- ♀ 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:54:43

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