she has offended him for 8 years. now she becomes a victim?

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I only see how much she loves him, and he knows that. -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (201 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:52:18

her insecurity comes from her own family, not from him. -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (145 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:09

女人独立不是简单地自给自足,而是能够知道自己的不足 -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:55:42

Nobody is perfect, that's why people fight. But if a -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 14:59:51

yes, definately now he wants to change because he gets tired of -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (107 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:03:14

+ gets tired of her baggage -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:04:05

Well, did he talk about it with her and try to help her? -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (192 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:08:34

his only fault was he got married with her without knowing her -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (274 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:22:03

It's not that simple. life has more into it. -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:45

so we need to clarify and obey rules to make it simple. -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:31

Sure. Good idea. -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:33:37

talking about it with her and trying to help her should happen b -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (119 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:26:32

+happen before marriage. -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:27:37

Ton's of people have baggage. A loving spouse will know -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:30:19

I am sure too. but the bonus can't fill what's missing in the ba -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (172 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:35:05

So he has bad coping skill. OK. I'm just telling her -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (58 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:41:31

以其人之道还治其人之身也要看时机的。搞不好等于给他 -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (63 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:49:13

我要下线了。小妇人谢谢你孜孜不倦和我灌了这么多的水 -流水无痕- 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:52:14

Hehe... have a good evening. I need to go too. -LittleHer- 给 LittleHer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/16/2009 postreply 15:54:43

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