I met my boyfriend about five months ago. I think it was love at first sight. He has everything I am looking for in a man. I believe he feels the same way about me. I met his parents and friends shortly after. I spent the Thanksgiving with his parents and half of his relatives.
We have great fun along the way, going to concerts, museums, clubs, films, and etc. He eats whatever I cook. He loves Asian food. But hot pot gave him stomach pain. We got along perfectly well and enjoy each other's company. I drive to see him usually on Tuesday, he visits me during the weekends. However, we usually do not spend the night at each other's place. I feel that he is the kind of guy who really needs a lot of freedom and space. So I never asked him about it.
Anyway, last Tuesday, I could not go because something happened with my car. I was bit upset when he told me that we just have to see each other on Friday. I wrote him an email telling him how disappointed I was. I told him that I have no intention of invading his space, but it might be dangerous for me to drive back late in the evening, and how scared I was when walking back from the dark parking lot. I told him that I never expect him to go out of his way to protect me, but he should at least care for my safty. I also told him the story I saw here, how this girl's boyfriend drive across the border to see her every month. Finally, I told him that I never mind doing these for him before, because love is not what you say, love is what you do.
Anyway, I think he was touched by my letter. He drove to apologize to me the minute he saw the letter. He told me that he loves me very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He also told me that whenever I am upset, I should call him and he would immediately appologize to me. He also agree that I should stay over. He did not see the email until the next evening. So I waited for his response all day, and wasted a lot of tears.
Anyway, I stayed over last weekend. We had a really good time, he even said to me, "why don't you stay over here from now on?" I said no, because I don't want to move in together before marriage. I am also very particular about having my space too (we need a bigger place). The good thing is that he gets really nervoous about me. It took me a bit longer to drive over, because I had to clean the snow. He called me to make sure I was ok, which he has never done it before. He also called after I got home. He was also very sweet to clean the snow on my car. He has always been very sweet to me. We have been having a lot of fun going out, which is great. I think he is learning to take the respon*****ility of a potential hu*****and, which he probably has never thought of doing it before.
I was talking to my dad yesterday. He thinks that I should give my bf a hint. What do your guys think? _(a)