I think you are right. I did not care too much neither. But my dad says that it might go nowhere if I do not do the right thing at the right moment. I am not going to push him. I respect his choice. But I want to let him know how I feel in a subtle way. When he said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, I did not say anything. Also, when he suggested me moving in, I just said no. I should have said something better.