Feeling a bit better

来源: daydreamsilly 于 2010-06-26 15:30:16 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1254 bytes)

Thanks for everyone who bothers to share their thoughts. I have bottled this up for some time and it is so relieving to tell.

I didn't introduce myself because when the courage to write finally came, I seized the moment and went straight to the point.

I was born in the 70s, divorced. I married for love and divorced for lack of love. I still believe in love and won't settle easily.( That's how family and close friends "accused" me of constantly). There are male friends in life that has the potential to turn into boyfriends if I would like to. But I am not sure that is right. I am still growing and learning what a lasting and fulfilling relationshiip should start with.

There are 2 ranks between him and I in the company. The fact I will report to him directly on this project is tricky to me, I will have to careful with my direct boss and need to keep him informed at every stage if not invovled. I am not sure if he thinks I have the capability to handle the project as he said or because this is a risky project and if it doesn't go anywhere, it is easier to write it off because a less seniro person like me managed it.

P.S. my last thread is at http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSView.php?SubID=kghy&MsgID=683709

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• 结婚离婚被你说的这么轻松。妹妹你是在挖坑吧？ -Oona- ♀ 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 Oona 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 15:41:28

• jiejie, what do I say? -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (367 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:10:47

• 你够勇敢的，尝试过一次了，还在干这飞蛾扑火的事情，祝你好运。 -Oona- ♀ 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 Oona 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:24:19

• 英语不错， 顶英语。 -89MM- ♀ 给 89MM 发送悄悄话 89MM 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 15:49:39

• 啊? -抱抱- ♀ 给 抱抱 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 22:30:46

• 如果没有学会如何将激情化为亲情，不管结多少次婚都得以离婚收场的。 -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (297 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 15:59:05

• That's why I said it is a zero-return investment. That man -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (95 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:09:42

• Sign. To be a superfox is not an easy task. 回复：That's why I said -zhuzhuhamster- ♀ 给 zhuzhuhamster 发送悄悄话 zhuzhuhamster 的博客首页 (146 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:15:32

• Dear, it takes both desire and talents to become a foxy -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (151 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:25:05

• Aren't be intrigued by talent and want to analyse and learn? -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:34:14

• sorry, aren't we...? typo -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:35:10

• You must understand that talents are born, not learned. -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:14:50

• maybe not everyone is 东施? some are more hopeful? -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:18:37

• Then you wouldn't have been here and asked for advice:) -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:24:44

• hehe,sharp answer,cooool -iamyournewfriend- ♀ 给 iamyournewfriend 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 18:30:51

• 哈哈，笑死。对这样的dummy姐姐不必费时 -xingfujiaren- ♀ 给 xingfujiaren 发送悄悄话 xingfujiaren 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 18:52:36

• Are you the same as you were 20, 10 years ago? -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (366 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 22:16:08

• More 弱智 than the profiles on internet dating site, you reckon? -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 22:54:31

• 美丽能干如你，也是这样说，平平淡淡是真，顶你。 -Oona- ♀ 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 Oona 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:39:42

• 谢谢妹妹夸奖。哪里美丽能干，就是知道自己的斤两而已：） -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:16:06

• I doubt she knows anything about him. All she cares is if -greenlawn- ♀ 给 greenlawn 发送悄悄话 greenlawn 的博客首页 (46 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:35:38

• Be careful. Office romance is most likely to ruin your career. -worriedmom1- ♀ 给 worriedmom1 发送悄悄话 worriedmom1 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:24:42

• I can't sense he is interested -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (536 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:27:56

• 如果MAKING AN ADVANCE不是你的STYLE,就要 -8765- ♀ 给 8765 发送悄悄话 (86 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:37:53

• Thanks, and thats exactly how he got my attention at first place -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (381 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:15:11

• 他就是个好上级，如此而已。好像你非常缺乏爱和关注，就想多了。 -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 19:01:01

• 中年危机是这样的啊，有点可怕。 -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 18:58:57

• 你的EX和你从头就不COMPATIBLE. CHEMISTRY有 -8765- ♀ 给 8765 发送悄悄话 (224 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:30:08

• 回复：你的EX和你从头就不COMPATIBLE. CHEMISTRY有 -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:32:09

• 金牛对婚姻好象很能忍,看来你的EX让你忍无可忍了. -8765- ♀ 给 8765 发送悄悄话 (22 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:41:25

• It seems like I know who you are now.回复：金牛对婚姻好象很能忍,看来你的EX让你忍无可忍了 -zhuzhuhamster- ♀ 给 zhuzhuhamster 发送悄悄话 zhuzhuhamster 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 16:46:36

• You are so sweet.. -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (81 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:17:18

• U have not answered our very first question: is he -greenlawn- ♀ 给 greenlawn 发送悄悄话 greenlawn 的博客首页 (638 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 17:30:14

• For the record, he is not married. -daydreamsilly- ♀ 给 daydreamsilly 发送悄悄话 (231 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 22:42:00

• 回复：Feeling a bit better -score360- ♀ 给 score360 发送悄悄话 (181 bytes) () 06/26/2010 postreply 18:54:02

• 真的好同情你 -爱上网- ♀ 给 爱上网 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/27/2010 postreply 04:42:56

• you dont have to -score360- ♀ 给 score360 发送悄悄话 (221 bytes) () 06/27/2010 postreply 16:07:39

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