The child support should not be a problem.

来源: 绝望2010 于 2010-01-14 11:08:02 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (467 bytes)
回答: some update about the divorce 由 绝望2010 于 2010-01-14 10:52:33

The lawyer would ask for deduction from his pay check. But the spouse support might be the problem. we were married less than 10 yrs. so the alimony would be really little esp the wife is still working.
But without the alimony, the kid has to quit the school, there is no way that the wife can support that amount for what she is earning now..

we don't have much money in joint account. and now with what I have spent on the lawyer..they are almost gone..

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• most likely you will be stripped out by the lawyer, if not in de -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (290 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:12:05

• 现实真的很残酷.老是听说在美国离婚会让男的变穷。 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (94 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:18:04

• 孩子一个月的学费都是$2000 了 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:19:55

• life will be different... accept the change, and planning accord -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:21:57

• 我建议你还是坐下来和你老公好好谈谈吧，既然硬的不行了，那就用软的试试， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (326 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:25:20

• I tried. he does not care. he asks me to send the kid to pub -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (492 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:13

• you can write in your agreement that he can't send the kid -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (36 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:19

• 那就搞joint,你50%他50%。我不了解离婚法，但是据我所知他就算得到了full custody, 没你同意，他也别想 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (302 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:35

• 在美国离婚会让男的变穷。but it's not better for wife either -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:23:28

• but 1000 means nothing to him compare to his salary -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:42:07

• 1000 is 1000. you can't ask him to be the same after divorce. -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (323 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:46:39

• I think you are right, i should not think about his support anym -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:49:50

• 如果child support 不够上私校的， 就不上了， 要面对现实。 -997F7- ♀ 给 997F7 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:22:21

• 要不楼主干脆现在辞职，等离婚后再去找，怎样呢？出个馊主意，：） -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:27:26

• spousal support will still be limited for a 7yr marriage -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:29:35

• nod, would help -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:31:07

• i mean, won't help -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:32:01

• lol. good try. but if court knows that, won't do any good -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (9 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:36:34

• the bottom line is, don't count on spousal support. -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (603 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:47

• Question: if i take the money from join acct. he would -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (160 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:00

• if you spend the money on the kid, then he can't ask you -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:48:20

• 自动辞职是不算数的，layoff 可以。 -LilyWhite- ♀ 给 LilyWhite 发送悄悄话 LilyWhite 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:22

• 那还不简单啊。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:02:43

• In your divorce decree you may negotiate for your ex to -bj09- ♀ 给 bj09 发送悄悄话 (111 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:03:54

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