most likely you will be stripped out by the lawyer, if not in de

来源: Kamioka 于 2010-01-14 11:12:05 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (290 bytes)
回答: 1. he has to pay child support. 由 Kamioka 于 2010-01-14 11:01:13

and for spousal support you really need to find a good lawyer. if he doesn't want to be a good father, the kid might have to quit the private school, unless you are willing to borrow money for the kid. unfortunately, life will not be the same after divorce. you should accept this reality.

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• 现实真的很残酷.老是听说在美国离婚会让男的变穷。 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (94 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:18:04

• 孩子一个月的学费都是$2000 了 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:19:55

• life will be different... accept the change, and planning accord -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:21:57

• 我建议你还是坐下来和你老公好好谈谈吧，既然硬的不行了，那就用软的试试， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (326 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:25:20

• I tried. he does not care. he asks me to send the kid to pub -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (492 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:13

• you can write in your agreement that he can't send the kid -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (36 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:19

• 那就搞joint,你50%他50%。我不了解离婚法，但是据我所知他就算得到了full custody, 没你同意，他也别想 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (302 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:35

• 在美国离婚会让男的变穷。but it's not better for wife either -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:23:28

• but 1000 means nothing to him compare to his salary -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:42:07

• 1000 is 1000. you can't ask him to be the same after divorce. -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (323 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:46:39

• I think you are right, i should not think about his support anym -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:49:50

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