1. he has to pay child support.

来源: Kamioka 于 2010-01-14 11:01:13 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (55 bytes)

2. don't let him take your money out of joint account.

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• The child support should not be a problem. -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (467 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:08:02

• most likely you will be stripped out by the lawyer, if not in de -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (290 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:12:05

• 现实真的很残酷.老是听说在美国离婚会让男的变穷。 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (94 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:18:04

• 孩子一个月的学费都是$2000 了 -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:19:55

• life will be different... accept the change, and planning accord -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:21:57

• 我建议你还是坐下来和你老公好好谈谈吧，既然硬的不行了，那就用软的试试， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (326 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:25:20

• I tried. he does not care. he asks me to send the kid to pub -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (492 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:13

• you can write in your agreement that he can't send the kid -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (36 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:19

• 那就搞joint,你50%他50%。我不了解离婚法，但是据我所知他就算得到了full custody, 没你同意，他也别想 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (302 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:35

• 在美国离婚会让男的变穷。but it's not better for wife either -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:23:28

• but 1000 means nothing to him compare to his salary -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:42:07

• 1000 is 1000. you can't ask him to be the same after divorce. -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (323 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:46:39

• I think you are right, i should not think about his support anym -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:49:50

• 如果child support 不够上私校的， 就不上了， 要面对现实。 -997F7- ♀ 给 997F7 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:22:21

• 要不楼主干脆现在辞职，等离婚后再去找，怎样呢？出个馊主意，：） -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:27:26

• spousal support will still be limited for a 7yr marriage -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:29:35

• nod, would help -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:31:07

• i mean, won't help -胡桃架子-- ♀ 给 胡桃架子- 发送悄悄话 胡桃架子- 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:32:01

• lol. good try. but if court knows that, won't do any good -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (9 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:36:34

• the bottom line is, don't count on spousal support. -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (603 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:47

• Question: if i take the money from join acct. he would -绝望2010- ♀ 给 绝望2010 发送悄悄话 (160 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:00

• if you spend the money on the kid, then he can't ask you -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:48:20

• 自动辞职是不算数的，layoff 可以。 -LilyWhite- ♀ 给 LilyWhite 发送悄悄话 LilyWhite 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:22

• 那还不简单啊。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:02:43

• In your divorce decree you may negotiate for your ex to -bj09- ♀ 给 bj09 发送悄悄话 (111 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:03:54

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