回复：我认为他这样写在纸上是他付月付和house insurance说

Thanks for your comments.

I know financially不是个好deal. Moving is such a big project. I还要自己租storeage. I never expect that 分手要求分房子. That is his house any way. And we are not married.

Just like kozi said. I thought maybe we need to know each other better before we decided to be together for life time. I feel he thinks the same way too.

Yes, he is honest, He is not rich although he works hard.

He is not very generious. But he is reasonable. If this is not a good deal, should I move to his house? But what if this will never be a good deal?

I feel being with him was never a good deal (financially speaking) but how can I decide if I am emotionally envolved?

Other similiar examples are: I offer to buy things he like for his birthday and he will pick really expensive gifts ( $300-400). He asked me about my birthday gifts, I said I don't need anything and he just gave a card. I was disappointed but I thought it was my own fault. I shouldn't compare. That makes me feel unappreciated. But if I were him, I wouldn't ask for that expensive gift. I feel it is too much. Am I just frugal?

所有跟帖： 

• No, you are not frugal. You are just too Chinese, and he is a t -kozi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/29/2009 postreply 16:36:40

• 你这样说那他更不是个好deal了，哪有生日就送张卡的 -2008VGirl- ♀ (127 bytes) () 08/29/2009 postreply 16:49:45

• agree -ne0987- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/29/2009 postreply 17:06:17

• MM对他并不十分满意的，对吗？ -sweetowl- ♀ (310 bytes) () 08/29/2009 postreply 17:40:14

• He is not your ideal person for marriage. He is a minimal guy. -pretty_woman2- ♀ (584 bytes) () 08/29/2009 postreply 22:14:50

• I think this guy is too 小气。My boyfriend is not rich, but he woul -langyue10- ♀ (159 bytes) () 08/30/2009 postreply 06:01:22