1. he has to pay child support.

2. don't let him take your money out of joint account.

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• The child support should not be a problem. -绝望2010- ♀ (467 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:08:02

• most likely you will be stripped out by the lawyer, if not in de -Kamioka- ♀ (290 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:12:05

• 现实真的很残酷.老是听说在美国离婚会让男的变穷。 -绝望2010- ♀ (94 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:18:04

• 孩子一个月的学费都是$2000 了 -绝望2010- ♀ (74 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:19:55

• life will be different... accept the change, and planning accord -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:21:57

• 我建议你还是坐下来和你老公好好谈谈吧，既然硬的不行了，那就用软的试试， -知福惜福- ♀ (326 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:25:20

• I tried. he does not care. he asks me to send the kid to pub -绝望2010- ♀ (492 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:13

• you can write in your agreement that he can't send the kid -Kamioka- ♀ (36 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:19

• 那就搞joint,你50%他50%。我不了解离婚法，但是据我所知他就算得到了full custody, 没你同意，他也别想 -知福惜福- ♀ (302 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:35

• 在美国离婚会让男的变穷。but it's not better for wife either -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:23:28

• but 1000 means nothing to him compare to his salary -绝望2010- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:42:07

• 1000 is 1000. you can't ask him to be the same after divorce. -Kamioka- ♀ (323 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:46:39

• I think you are right, i should not think about his support anym -绝望2010- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:49:50

• 如果child support 不够上私校的， 就不上了， 要面对现实。 -997F7- ♀ (78 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:22:21

• 要不楼主干脆现在辞职，等离婚后再去找，怎样呢？出个馊主意，：） -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:27:26

• spousal support will still be limited for a 7yr marriage -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:29:35

• nod, would help -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:31:07

• i mean, won't help -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:32:01

• lol. good try. but if court knows that, won't do any good -绝望2010- ♀ (9 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:36:34

• the bottom line is, don't count on spousal support. -Kamioka- ♀ (603 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:41:47

• Question: if i take the money from join acct. he would -绝望2010- ♀ (160 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:47:00

• if you spend the money on the kid, then he can't ask you -Kamioka- ♀ (97 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:48:20

• 自动辞职是不算数的，layoff 可以。 -LilyWhite- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 11:43:22

• 那还不简单啊。 -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:02:43

• In your divorce decree you may negotiate for your ex to -bj09- ♀ (111 bytes) () 01/14/2010 postreply 12:03:54