basically agree

i personally think fanfan falls into the category you described: "矛盾, 浅薄, 虚荣, 心地是比较善良的，也是知恩图报的人."

She is not a bad person (my opinion), but "她的一些痛苦和挣扎" made her write those controversial posts - i believe due to the 痛苦和挣扎, she needs a fantasy world.

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• 你肯定是这坛子里最理解fanfan的人了，透彻啊！ -长空飞云- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:21:04

• Can you pls. articulate what Fanfan's 一些痛苦和挣扎 are? -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (41 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:25:53

• It's not easy to be an old single dinosaur woman. -aidanmom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:29:48

• Hahahahaha：) -网恋手- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:32:29

• Is she really? From her posts, seems she's still qutie young -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (75 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:33:03

• 她从未show过照片，你忘了她还放了DC KT聚会一次鸽子 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:34:51

• I don't know that part. Guess I didn't pay that much close -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (19 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:39:41

• 老黄历了。你以前太忙了。俺都见怪不怪了 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:43:39

• 其实如果她能feel better，为何bother去戳穿她呢，just let go -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:37:01

• 这个我同意你。只要她不跟大家骗钱之类的，让她保留一个美梦吧。 -bluespirit- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:40:08

• 是这个理。 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:55:24

• 如果一个人有mental problems, 随他编织美梦还是让她意识 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (61 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:41:56

• 俺个人觉得她比从前好多了，至少不骂人了，这也是一种进步。mental problem到没这么严重。 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (197 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:53:28

• 说实在的，很久以来见她的贴子我就跨过的，结果昨天一句话搞来 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (144 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:58:17

• i was just guessing -Q_Bao- ♀ (452 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:31:28

• Obviously we are getting different messages from her posts -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (325 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:37:48

• 她是不是嫁了一个postdoc，却幻想成嫁了一个富翁 -xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:32:25

• 你侮辱postdoc呢，呵呵 -Luno- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:49:37

• 破四狗如俺，最廉价劳动力 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/10/2010 postreply 14:54:37