I know my hu*****and makes much more than me and we have a joint account.
When my hu*****and first married me that time (6 months), I didn't have a job. He gave me the money for food and other... I rejected because I have money. After threee months, he talked with me. He felt hurt that wife didn't want to use his money...
So, I know if someone in my family needs money for illness, he will. Actually, it did happen, but I told him that my family is fine with money...
So I should feel good about this, right?