Need advice - should I be worried?

来源: 恬恬妈妈 于 2009-12-29 17:46:58 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (981 bytes)

Hubby met a Asian woman through a friend lately and she is married with a mixed 4-year-old girl. We have a 3-year-old daughter. They had some play dates (I had been busy with work lately so I was absent, so was her hu*****and). Today I happened to see 2 short emails from hubby to her when my daughter was playing on hubby's laptop (I know I wasn't supposed to look). First was "hey you, I just got home", which was sent right after he got home today. Second was, "Forgot to tell you, I did 2 sets of plank (some workout/exercise thing) today, and I thought of you". She teaches class in the gym, kind of like yoga/pilate but harder. And BTW, she is 9-month pregnant.

Should I be worried? I know nothing probably has happened given her pregnancy, but why would he report "just got home" to a friend?

Lastly, I'm not sure if this is the riht place to ask this kind of questions, but this is the only one I visit in WXC. Sorry if it's the wrong place.

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• if I were you, I would choose to ignore it. -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 17:55:24

• this time. -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 17:58:39

• 不要，我会从此主动介入他们的play date.如果她真是你敌人，那就更应该把她放在你身边。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (60 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 17:59:57

• 同意知福的观点。 -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:03:50

• why? -swm06- ♀ 给 swm06 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:10:28

• 这个有点奇怪。建议外松内紧。留个心眼，不必当大事，不挑穿。 -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (44 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 17:57:45

• 回复：这个有点奇怪。建议外松内紧。留个心眼，不必当大事，不挑穿。 -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (70 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:14:03

• 对的，而其还要和那个女的开始建立起比你老公和她还要好的关系。 应该是容易的，大家都是母亲。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:17:35

• 这就好。她也有家有孩，通常不会太出格的啦。 -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:18:05

• 是有点太随便＋亲近。 -简娜- ♀ 给 简娜 发送悄悄话 简娜 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:02:00

• 回复：Need advice - should I be worried? -yingshanhong- ♀ 给 yingshanhong 发送悄悄话 (107 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:03:34

• 我觉得要结合情景来看的话，因为她也是搞跟gym有关的，这句话倒是不觉得突兀的。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:07:37

• 我坦白，也对人家LG说过这句。天地良心，我是半点贼心也没有。不暧昧。 -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:12:43

• avoid future play dates if possible -huangshang- ♀ 给 huangshang 发送悄悄话 huangshang 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:11:52

• 不会吧，男人难道就不能和女性有任何朋友关系吗？我觉得不好，特别是还涉及到孩子的问题， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:15:27

• Two emails after they just saw each other in play date? -huangshang- ♀ 给 huangshang 发送悄悄话 huangshang 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:18:26

• 他们以前应该认识的吧。不然怎么会play date呢？ -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:19:22

• 他们认识, why two unnecessary emails after paly date? -huangshang- ♀ 给 huangshang 发送悄悄话 huangshang 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:23:23

• 那可能是今天大家谈的比较欢一点，觉得比以前更了解对方，关系更进一步啊。有可能的啊。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:25:51

• Sounds a little fishy to me. If I were you, I would -swm06- ♀ 给 swm06 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:17:22

• Be aware! -christianlily- ♀ 给 christianlily 发送悄悄话 (302 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:22:28

• Keep eye on your husband... Avoid the chance to let them see eac -loveFashion1000- ♀ 给 loveFashion1000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:25:34

• 回复：Be aware! -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (11 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:27:29

• agreed. -2008vgirl- ♀ 给 2008vgirl 发送悄悄话 2008vgirl 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 20:07:49

• 回复：Need advice - should I be worried? -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (568 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:24:04

• You have good instinct, follow it. Joke more with him, he will -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:26:37

• ... he will get what you mean. -糖果果- ♀ 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:28:32

• 我倒给你想法相反，有句话叫会叫的狗不咬人。一般平时大大咧咧的，嘴上说的欢的， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (215 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:30:21

• 那句到家了的短信，你不觉得因为是有女儿在一起的缘故吗？可能是因为体谅到她是做母亲的， -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (92 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:32:32

• 不是，今天没有playdate. He meant just got home from work -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:35:37

• 哦，恩，那就有点过线了，证明了他们今天一直在联系来着。 -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (31 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:37:45

• 回复：那句到家了的短信，你不觉得因为是有女儿在一起的缘故吗？可能是因为体谅到她是做母亲的， -christianlily- ♀ 给 christianlily 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:37:56

• 回复：回复：Need advice - should I be worried? -christianlily- ♀ 给 christianlily 发送悄悄话 (295 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:32:43

• 回复：回复：回复：Need advice - should I be worried? -christianlily- ♀ 给 christianlily 发送悄悄话 (180 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:48:07

• Didn't have playdate today. They email each other I suppose. T -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (95 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:30:31

• They also talk via Facebook. -恬恬妈妈- ♀ 给 恬恬妈妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:32:59

• Is your husband to plan to "Swap Wife" event in the future? -loveFashion1000- ♀ 给 loveFashion1000 发送悄悄话 (228 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:44:31

• why 'thought of you', this is really fishy. Don't know -bj09- ♀ 给 bj09 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:46:11

• If I were you, I will not be happy with these emails. -AP_question- ♂ 给 AP_question 发送悄悄话 (445 bytes) () 12/29/2009 postreply 18:47:09

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