I do not understand why people here see JieJie as

a victim. She is a victim of her own bad chice not victim of the man. The man was not out there covering up his face to hunt her. Instead, he did not even try to hide that he is a pig and he just wanted to have fun. He also repeatedly treated her like a dog, she was dismissed right after his libido was satisfied. She is an adult woman and did not have to take all this sh*t. But instead she made some very bad choices for herself.

89mm's purpose is make JMs like Jie Jie wide open their eyes. But this is not the classic of men taking advantage of women story. Why? because most women would skip this guy if they hear "just for fun". I am interested to know what that guy's profile says that attracted Jie Jie's eye balls in the first place. I mean did he say that he was just looking for fun? or he did not talk about his purpose of meeting women? If he did not mention his purpose of meeting women, I would definately ask him if I were Jie Jie at the very first date before I take off my clothes to him.

It is way more challenging how to tell an experienced and skilled 骗子 who is outthere to hunt for women for free sex under the cover of "looking for someone to get settled happily ever after." That is why I am not interested in analyzing why the man is doing this or doing that. There should be more concerns why Jie Jie still had desire to get back to the man while she was clearly treated badly.

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• last word, only after we fix our own problems, the jerks -swm06- ♀ (27 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:16:28

• You said exactly what I want say. -忍不住说几句吧- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:18:41

• 所有有本书叫”为什么男人都爱“坏”女人“，说的就是这个道理。 -jasondand- ♀ (157 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:22:50

• hahaha...my next training subject is how to become a -swm06- ♀ (19 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:25:30

• 哈哈，我已经被LD戏称为“ she wolf". 那天给老公翻译“蜗居” -jasondand- ♀ (122 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:28:21

• 俺老弟教导俺，一看没戏（不管谁的原因），就赶快溜， -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (64 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:33:19

• 我是不容易喜欢上一个人，喜欢上了，也是默默地喜欢（太胆小） -jasondand- ♀ (166 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:37:23

• 那俺比你胆大点，还敢去试探 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:39:49

• 跟你握爪。 ：） -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:40:46

• 很同意！他们是一个愿打一个愿挨，我们何必为挨打的叫屈呢。 -糖果果- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:24:51

• 都是女人吗，同情受害者没错吧。 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/21/2009 postreply 20:38:25