I do not understand why people here see JieJie as

a victim. She is a victim of her own bad chice not victim of the man. The man was not out there covering up his face to hunt her. Instead, he did not even try to hide that he is a pig and he just wanted to have fun. He also repeatedly treated her like a dog, she was dismissed right after his libido was satisfied. She is an adult woman and did not have to take all this sh*t. But instead she made some very bad choices for herself.

89mm's purpose is make JMs like Jie Jie wide open their eyes. But this is not the classic of men taking advantage of women story. Why? because most women would skip this guy if they hear "just for fun". I am interested to know what that guy's profile says that attracted Jie Jie's eye balls in the first place. I mean did he say that he was just looking for fun? or he did not talk about his purpose of meeting women? If he did not mention his purpose of meeting women, I would definately ask him if I were Jie Jie at the very first date before I take off my clothes to him.

It is way more challenging how to tell an experienced and skilled 骗子 who is outthere to hunt for women for free sex under the cover of "looking for someone to get settled happily ever after." That is why I am not interested in analyzing why the man is doing this or doing that. There should be more concerns why Jie Jie still had desire to get back to the man while she was clearly treated badly.