jms, need your advice

来源: hzgg 于 2009-12-15 07:35:28 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (724 bytes)

My hu*****and's grandma just passed away on Monday morning. She and most of my hu*****and's family live in another state. The funeral would be on Thursday morning.

We have to drive in Wednesday night and drive back right after the funeral on Thursday since both of us are working. We have one kid in school who has test next day and an infant who is only 6 months.

I'd like to support my hu*****and as much as I can since that's his grandma. But it's too much work driving to another state back and forth in a day with two kids. What would you do if you were in my shoes? My hu*****and sounds very much like me and kids to go but he said he would listen whatever I decide to do.

will appreciate your input.

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• How long is the drive? -bluespirit- ♀ 给 bluespirit 发送悄悄话 bluespirit 的博客首页 (429 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 07:46:34

• Thanks. The driving would take at least 6-7 hours. I am still -hzgg- ♀ 给 hzgg 发送悄悄话 (263 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 07:55:49

• I understand how you feel. -bluespirit- ♀ 给 bluespirit 发送悄悄话 bluespirit 的博客首页 (418 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:00:39

• love and appreciation are mutual. If your husband -结婚十年- ♀ 给 结婚十年 发送悄悄话 (245 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:08:47

• 我会去，如果先生已经表态他想一起去。也就一天，不是什么 -swm06- ♀ 给 swm06 发送悄悄话 (178 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 07:52:11

• Good thought, thanks. -hzgg- ♀ 给 hzgg 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 07:56:25

• It's one of the occasions that your kids would experience -结婚十年- ♀ 给 结婚十年 发送悄悄话 (217 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:00:00

• How about your husband takes your old kid attending the funeral -臭臭妈妈- ♀ 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (27 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:03:49

• we did think about it. It could be. -hzgg- ♀ 给 hzgg 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:46:32

• i would go if i were you -Q_Bao- ♀ 给 Q_Bao 发送悄悄话 (194 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:06:58

• If i were you, I'd take Thursday and Friday off. And then -HotChocolate- ♀ 给 HotChocolate 发送悄悄话 HotChocolate 的博客首页 (45 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:47:50

• I wish I could. I work for a bank, have to work on both of the d -hzgg- ♀ 给 hzgg 发送悄悄话 (78 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:53:00

• I'd like to appreciate all jms' thoughts. my husband just emaile -hzgg- ♀ 给 hzgg 发送悄悄话 (215 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 08:55:56

• I wont go the little one is only 6 months old. -sslw- ♀ 给 sslw 发送悄悄话 (36 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:11:26

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