I don't think 走入第二次婚姻的女性对爱的期望降低了很多.

It is maybe true that 考虑问题实际了很多, but 对爱的期望降低? No way! For some people (especially some Chinese people) they don't probably even really know what love is in their first 婚姻.

If a 走入第二次婚姻的女性对爱的期望降低了很多 then she probably 走入第二次婚姻 because she has to, because of a lot of other reasons, than love. I can proudly say that it is not my case. I have a life - a life I am fulfilled and satisfied - of my own. I don't need a man to provide me anything I need from this life. I can do it by myself. Therefore if I 走入第二次婚姻 it is only because of love, and believe that we will enhance each other's life with the maturity, experience we obtained from life, the support, care and love we can give each other. This love is by no means any 期望降低的 love. It is opposite.

I wish most of the MMs at this forum, who are still looking, will find someone and 走入婚姻 with this kind of love.

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• 严重同意.因为有了生活经历,对爱和婚姻的理解不同了, -idealfollower- ♀ (160 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 15:40:03

• 严重同意.因为有了生活经历,对爱和婚姻的理解不同了.更注重quality了 -marryliu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 18:01:09

• 这要看你在哪儿生活,在国内，离异的再拖个孩子的女人就很难寻找爱情的，在国外因为文化的不同，离异女人还有许多选择，所以就还能挑一个 -(())- ♀ (64 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 17:09:19

• 我想说两点： （1） 你在国外生活这么长时间，为什么还要 -1800900- ♀ (470 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 18:17:57

• 我的意思是指楼主的原文中的想法是有情可原的，年龄和其他方面的原因导致的每个人对生活的看法不同。你说的很对，支持你。 -(())- ♀ (118 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 19:08:41

• 有同感.有过失败经理就不要太在意别人的看法,快乐最重要. -pretty_woman2- ♀ (180 bytes) () 12/06/2009 postreply 00:50:37

• 本人只爱帅哥，不过很理解楼主的想法，也很理解你的想法。 -(())- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 19:26:52

• 只爱帅哥可以， 请一定找一个真心相爱的帅哥 ：-）， 心眼 -1800900- ♀ (12 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 19:31:43

• 9494，爱情和帅和经济基础都重要，舍一就不行 -(())- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 19:37:16

• 看来你的标准是高了点儿 ：-）怨不得国内的朋友劝你差不多 -1800900- ♀ (247 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 19:49:03

• 我等再老一点在降低标准吧，现在对帅哥抵抗力差，等老点没帅哥理我了，我就死心了。呵呵 -(())- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 20:27:57

• 走入第二次婚姻的女性对爱的期望降低了很多- how pathetic!! -胡桃架子-- ♀ (8 bytes) () 12/04/2009 postreply 18:28:15