I don't think 走入第二次婚姻的女性对爱的期望降低了很多.

It is maybe true that 考虑问题实际了很多, but 对爱的期望降低? No way! For some people (especially some Chinese people) they don't probably even really know what love is in their first 婚姻.

If a 走入第二次婚姻的女性对爱的期望降低了很多 then she probably 走入第二次婚姻 because she has to, because of a lot of other reasons, than love. I can proudly say that it is not my case. I have a life - a life I am fulfilled and satisfied - of my own. I don't need a man to provide me anything I need from this life. I can do it by myself. Therefore if I 走入第二次婚姻 it is only because of love, and believe that we will enhance each other's life with the maturity, experience we obtained from life, the support, care and love we can give each other. This love is by no means any 期望降低的 love. It is opposite.

I wish most of the MMs at this forum, who are still looking, will find someone and 走入婚姻 with this kind of love.