I can't express how much I appreicated all your advice and warmth. I understand that things like this have to be decided by the person self, but listening to you helped a lot.
I called my boyfriend earlier on. I decided to tell him frankly what was in my mind, but not making up some excuses. He was genuinely shocked that I would quit the relationship becuase I was not sure if I can 'take' in his health issues. He said he would choose a different stand if we switched the place. I believed him. Sometimes I think that's why I am attracted to him. He has a lot mental power and strength.
We also talked about his spine problem and depression.It is the first time we openly talk about it. He sounds a lot optimistic regarding the both than I do. That kind makes me think that I was overworried.
Anyways, he said he understood my decision. He did not really try to change my mind. I guess he was disappointed and also tired of all those dramas I throwed at him. He always thought things were great until last week I said I was considering quit. He said he would not mind to break up right away, or he would go along if I want to take a longer time to think it over. So I chose the latter--i just felt very reluctant to break up after talking to him again. Maybe things will turn out clearer after I put it aside for a moment.
Anyways...thank you all again.
thank you all so much
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Good for you. I would rather say you are so lucky to have
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回复:Good for you. I would rather say you are so lucky to have
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他很有骨气,我为他感到骄傲!我只能说你很现实,不想说你很自私
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不要给她太大压力了!
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这是正常的感情表达,她没任何错。。。:::〉〉〉
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回复:他很有骨气,我为他感到骄傲!我只能说你很现实,不想说你很自私
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从流坛跟到跨坛,赞妹妹对他对己的坦率,没有坦率没法沟通,
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thanks very much.
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提醒你研究发现失恋可使人免疫力下降,引发类心脏病症状甚至导致死亡。
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楼主担当不起这个男人。现在分比以后分好。
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Hope so.
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could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain on bo
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回复:could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain on
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回复:回复:could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain
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