thank you all so much

I can't express how much I appreicated all your advice and warmth. I understand that things like this have to be decided by the person self, but listening to you helped a lot.

I called my boyfriend earlier on. I decided to tell him frankly what was in my mind, but not making up some excuses. He was genuinely shocked that I would quit the relationship becuase I was not sure if I can 'take' in his health issues. He said he would choose a different stand if we switched the place. I believed him. Sometimes I think that's why I am attracted to him. He has a lot mental power and strength.

We also talked about his spine problem and depression.It is the first time we openly talk about it. He sounds a lot optimistic regarding the both than I do. That kind makes me think that I was overworried.

Anyways, he said he understood my decision. He did not really try to change my mind. I guess he was disappointed and also tired of all those dramas I throwed at him. He always thought things were great until last week I said I was considering quit. He said he would not mind to break up right away, or he would go along if I want to take a longer time to think it over. So I chose the latter--i just felt very reluctant to break up after talking to him again. Maybe things will turn out clearer after I put it aside for a moment.

Anyways...thank you all again.

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Good for you. I would rather say you are so lucky to have -worriedmom1- 给 worriedmom1 发送悄悄话 (62 bytes) () 08/09/2009 postreply 22:09:49

回复:Good for you. I would rather say you are so lucky to have -路遥远- 给 路遥远 发送悄悄话 (390 bytes) () 08/09/2009 postreply 22:17:03

他很有骨气,我为他感到骄傲!我只能说你很现实,不想说你很自私 -红红的小辣椒- 给 红红的小辣椒 发送悄悄话 (307 bytes) () 08/09/2009 postreply 22:43:10

不要给她太大压力了! -大红鲤鱼- 给 大红鲤鱼 发送悄悄话 大红鲤鱼 的博客首页 (956 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 05:57:42

这是正常的感情表达,她没任何错。。。:::〉〉〉 -冷调- 给 冷调 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 07:20:02

回复:他很有骨气,我为他感到骄傲!我只能说你很现实,不想说你很自私 -路遥远- 给 路遥远 发送悄悄话 (600 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 09:08:24

从流坛跟到跨坛,赞妹妹对他对己的坦率,没有坦率没法沟通, -小义子- 给 小义子 发送悄悄话 小义子 的博客首页 (122 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 07:22:33

thanks very much. -路遥远- 给 路遥远 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 12:18:32

提醒你研究发现失恋可使人免疫力下降,引发类心脏病症状甚至导致死亡。 -lovehumanbeing- 给 lovehumanbeing 发送悄悄话 (114 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 08:10:37

楼主担当不起这个男人。现在分比以后分好。 -大红鲤鱼- 给 大红鲤鱼 发送悄悄话 大红鲤鱼 的博客首页 (54 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 08:28:22

Hope so. -lovehumanbeing- 给 lovehumanbeing 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 08:48:17

could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain on bo -LoveHumanBeing- 给 LoveHumanBeing 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 09:01:24

回复:could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain on -路遥远- 给 路遥远 发送悄悄话 (371 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 09:13:49

回复:回复:could have handled it gently and massaged it, so less pain -lovehumanbeing- 给 lovehumanbeing 发送悄悄话 (416 bytes) () 08/10/2009 postreply 09:36:49

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