bluenile.com, which allows you to choose your own four "c"s when it comes to the diamond. But the same quality stuff cost much less at our local jewlery store. I guess it was the thoughts that count, so I should be more appreciative (I never told him otherwise). You were right in one of your posts -- thank him profusely but later tell him tactfully that he could have gotten a better deal, right? One of these days I will figure out a way of telling him :-)...