My apologies to sansemao and 滑雪季节

First to 滑雪季节: sorry for calling you "poor thing". I had been there and understand what you are going through. Wish you good luck in the new year.

To sansemao: I had no intention to make you feel bad. I like your posts, especially those on house hunting, trying to conceive etc, and the smart, fun personality behind those posts. But I just feel something not quite right/sincere when you keep saying you didn't want marry your BF and the marriage is just for the good of the baby, which made your post on your BF proposal less moving, and some people may feel you are hypocrite on the issue.

In fact there is nothing wrong to take your BF years to propose. Many guys are cautious on long term commitment, and my hu*****and is one of them. But he is a loving, committed hu*****and.

I majored in math, so I am a quite logical person and it bothers me when I read something which doesn't make sense to me logically.

Anyway, wish you and your new family happy new year, and good pregnancy.

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• 妹妹，以我的心来度你的意，恐怕是很难不受挫折的。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 07:44:55

• 先恶语伤人，回头立马又来一“apologies”，以为别人都傻子呢？ -如尘- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 07:50:07

• what 恶语？anyway, happy new year -...Thanks- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:12:06

• in my opinion, this is a little bit too much. Happy New Year to -如尘- ♀ (357 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:17:32

• I went to sleep after I replied to her and I feel bad -...Thanks- ♂ (110 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:24:12

• 俺也是学数学的 -也匿名了- ♀ (45 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 07:56:14

• wait till you are pregnant, and people attack you for what you h -boredatwork- ♀ (39 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 07:56:50

• 我那天要是怀孕了,就只潜水.消失几个月,等瓜熟蒂落,再回来开八.:-) -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 07:58:57

• 别介，我们还等你上美照呢 -boredatwork- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:00:10

• 要是有大肚照,我会留着. :-) -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:08:38

• 美女, 这可不象你的性格. 我们都喜欢你这一是一, 二是二的个性. -七月茉莉花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:03:22

• 我还是比较男孩性格,自我检讨有时侯确实说话不关风. :( -jasondand- ♀ (84 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:12:03

• 喜欢！ -mybabyfrizzle- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:13:35

• 顶你. 我也是比较男孩性格的说. -七月茉莉花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:14:39

• 不可信，估计你和我一样憋不住。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:06:24

• 你也很了解我啊. :-) -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:09:20

• 这次以我的心来度你的意，竟然没受挫折！ -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:17:50

• 我早变成死猪,还怕开水烫不成? :-) -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:25:14

• 谢谢你的祝福！人都有心直口快憋不住的时候。同样祝你新年快乐、好运！ -滑雪季节- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:17:46

• Thanks for your understanding -...Thanks- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 08:31:19

• 谢谢，感谢你关心。还是一句话，自己感情的路，自己走过来 -sansemao- ♀ (454 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 09:28:05

• Sansemao和滑雪季节都原谅你了。我废一句话，厚重之心要有，凡事不要顶真 -糖果果- ♀ (132 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 09:48:40

• So bad...life is so complicated and no simple formula -chaya- ♀ (48 bytes) () 12/31/2008 postreply 10:31:46