I am very very sad.

男友和我买好机票，这个节日去meet他的妈妈for the first time。男友刚电我，他妈妈睡眠中心跳停止，去医院后，医生说人已突然去世。

I felt so sad for missing the first and last chance to meet her. He is too and regret we didn't go sooner.

I've talked with her over the phone a couple of times. She was a upbeat,quick and fun lady. I liked her a lot and was looking forward to meet her. And the Italy chocolate I bought for her...

I still remembered one conversation she had with her son. After she asked him about my age, she laughed,"She is too old". He said,"Mom, you forgot my age?". We all laughed...She certainly know how to humor life...

We will go out there to help her one more time. The service for family and friends has been arranged. Beautiful songs and piano will be playing. We will enjoy this.


May she rest in peace and God Bless her.

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• May she rest in peace and God Bless her.. -鱼头烤玉米- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 19:52:16

• 谢谢鱼头妹妹。I feel awful to miss her. -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 19:56:22

• May she rest in peace. U should spend time with ur bf. -foreververonica- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:02:56

• Sorry to hear that.... may she RIP -ilovekimchi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:11:06

• 你多陪陪你男朋友吧。他一定非常难受。愿她安息。 -飞渡- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:14:18

• 谢谢楼上几位美眉。他现在别墅，明天回城，我会尽力安慰他。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:19:44

• 这么走对家人太突然，对她自己是修来的福分。 -Francine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:18:55

• 我也是这样对bf 说。This is the best way to leave. -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:22:57

• So sorry to hear that... as your sister, I am here very very sad -ChinaSmile999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:19:13

• warm tight hugs for you and your BF... -ChinaSmile999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:21:01

• 谢谢笑久。我买了意大利和比利时的巧克力给她，虽然她不用了， -绿水长流- ♀ (34 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:25:40

• my sympathy，不过，我建议你别处理成中国式的父母关系了 -赌球为生- ♂ (28 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:24:02

• 没有机会成父母关系了，最后一次了。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:46:20

• my condolence -温馨秋月- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:31:54

• 谢谢。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:47:15

• 抱抱，愿她在天堂的圣诞节快乐永远。 -榕树下- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:50:45

• 谢谢榕树美眉。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 20:55:27

• 绿水，看到这个消息很震惊。。。抱抱。请转告老农节哀顺便 -alazycatinsd- ♀ (141 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:23:17

• 我会转达你的美意。由于突变，我们可能不住他妈妈家了，正在找海边旅店。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:28:38

• La Jolla Cove那里有很多海景旅馆，你们可以狗一下，好好陪老农吧，这时候他 -alazycatinsd- ♀ (42 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:34:35

• 谢谢猫猫贴心提示。俺心里很乱，措手不及的要meet其他family成员。 -绿水长流- ♀ (69 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:44:51

• 不用呢大衣，薄羊绒大衣或者风衣就可以了，要够长的，晚上很冷 -alazycatinsd- ♀ (79 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 22:11:39

• My condolences to your bf and his family. -chinesebuns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:39:29

• 谢谢包子妹。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:50:37

• 抱抱姐姐，就当作她去远方旅行了，日后还会见面(当然不在地球） -sansemao- ♀ (275 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:43:40

• 你见过牛肉爹吗？我们就错过这两天，遗憾。我们是要celebrate， -绿水长流- ♀ (42 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 21:48:14

• 不见更好，见过更难受，尤其是你。因为如果她喜欢你，你俩 -sansemao- ♀ (849 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 22:06:19

• 羡慕你和牛肉爹有段父女情。虽没见过，我很喜欢老农妈。照片看 -绿水长流- ♀ (94 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 22:21:03

• 完全理解，遗憾也许就是生活的一部分。抱抱，跟老农 -sansemao- ♀ (100 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 23:13:47

• 喜欢牛肉爹这段关于死亡的话,人不懂得如何死,就不懂得如何活 -acme- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 01:53:45

• 我觉得能平静地理解死亡是必须，像理解吃饭一样，是一个很高的层次。 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 10:25:07

• 谢色猫的input,说得很有道理，生活的经历让人心智更成熟， -Sylviadu- ♀ (51 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 13:01:21

• So sad to know that. -高英姬- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 22:01:28

• Thank you. -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/22/2008 postreply 22:29:32

• So sad to hear it! But she is lucky to leave in the most peacefu -滑雪季节- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 00:01:57

• 人终有一死,得享遐龄,在睡眠中逝去也算是前世修来的福分.她一定是个好人! -acme- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 00:35:02

• I am very sorry to hear that. God Bless her -燕子楼- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 01:06:57

• 节哀！在你们心里，这个父母关系是永远存在的。 -小宇宙- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 03:44:28

• My condolences to you, your boyfriend and his family -what_name_to_use- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 05:19:57

• So sad. My condolences to you and your bf -loveny2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 06:11:38

• 回复：I am very very sad. -lemay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:01:10

• hug, hug, peace with her, -lemay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:02:07

• 又是一个很冷的冬天.不过最冷的过去了,春天还会远么.节哀. -jasondand- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:02:38

• 谢谢楼上诸位美眉，你们的好意我记下了。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:24:40

• 现在是老农最需要你的时候。 希望他能节哀顺便。 -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:37:52

• 谢谢葡萄美眉。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:49:30

• 我公公去世之后， 我老公和他弟弟反应完全不一样。 -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (275 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:57:09

• 老农是子女中和妈妈最亲的，家里一向是他顶大梁。雇佣人 -绿水长流- ♀ (290 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 08:15:58

• 老农 is such a nice guy, MM is lucky.take more time&attention on h -lemay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 08:40:04

• My condolences to you and your boyfriend -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 07:56:43

• 谢谢gzlady。I've heard many good things about you from J. -绿水长流- ♀ (40 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 08:17:59

• The feeling is mutual, wish we can meet someday, if you -gzlady- ♀ (131 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 08:35:38

• ok，一定去看看什么地方不是Truth。 -绿水长流- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 08:44:33

• So sorry...恰逢节日，失去亲人一定倍感痛楚。幸好有你陪伴 -dp123- ♀ (62 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 09:41:27

• 善终是白喜, 抱抱. -牛B2008- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/23/2008 postreply 13:27:51