any recommendations?

I am trying match.com. I have met a few guys and all of them, so far, want to keep dating with me. I only dumped one guy right after our first met (He is only 175cm written on his profile, but I think his actual height might be even shorter than that.) Some guys are living in another city and need to drive about one and half hours to come here to see me. Most are never married and have no children, and others have one kid (same as me). I think I still have not found the right one for me. So I am not going to dump these guys before I find the right one for me. If I cannot find the right one, I will pick up one from them as my partner .

I never tell them my plan. What kind of personal distance should I maintain with them? All of them act like a gentleman to me. Do you think I need to test their sexually abilities in the future since I consider this part important? If so, how soon do I need to test?

If I need to dump some of them in the future, how can I dump them?


Sorry to ask these stupid questions. I believe you girls are much smarter than me, so I would really get your opinions.

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Did you ever date guys before? -sfla- 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 17:53:53

Or maybe u r 18? I'm very confused about -sfla- 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 (122 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 17:58:26

All current shoes are not fit. -dellcomputer- 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (210 bytes) () 12/11/2006 postreply 06:41:01

偶觉得这个DUMP不用在这重复使用N多次,让人感觉你高人一等. -ClubMonaco- 给 ClubMonaco 发送悄悄话 (27 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 17:58:17

We don't know who dumped whom and who will dump whom. -sfla- 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 17:59:39

这么早就没人在这玩了...没劲 -ClubMonaco- 给 ClubMonaco 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:09:25

我在啊,要不我来挖坑? -boredatwork- 给 boredatwork 发送悄悄话 boredatwork 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:10:58

好,我来填 -ClubMonaco- 给 ClubMonaco 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:26:17

你们玩好,我得哄孩子睡觉去乐。 -青草青青- 给 青草青青 发送悄悄话 青草青青 的博客首页 (8 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:28:50

GOOD NIGHT TOO. -ClubMonaco- 给 ClubMonaco 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:31:39

Sorry to use this word -dellcomputer- 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (116 bytes) () 12/11/2006 postreply 06:43:48

Stupid! Boring! -carolinahk- 给 carolinahk 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:05:35

If you can afford to wait -lucky_wife- 给 lucky_wife 发送悄悄话 (850 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:16:34

Thank you! -dellcomputer- 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (207 bytes) () 12/11/2006 postreply 06:34:33

Well, you could just say that -青草青青- 给 青草青青 发送悄悄话 青草青青 的博客首页 (171 bytes) () 12/10/2006 postreply 18:24:09

Yeah, sounds to be a good excuse. -dellcomputer- 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2006 postreply 06:35:46

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