any recommendations?

I am trying match.com. I have met a few guys and all of them, so far, want to keep dating with me. I only dumped one guy right after our first met (He is only 175cm written on his profile, but I think his actual height might be even shorter than that.) Some guys are living in another city and need to drive about one and half hours to come here to see me. Most are never married and have no children, and others have one kid (same as me). I think I still have not found the right one for me. So I am not going to dump these guys before I find the right one for me. If I cannot find the right one, I will pick up one from them as my partner .

I never tell them my plan. What kind of personal distance should I maintain with them? All of them act like a gentleman to me. Do you think I need to test their sexually abilities in the future since I consider this part important? If so, how soon do I need to test?

If I need to dump some of them in the future, how can I dump them?


Sorry to ask these stupid questions. I believe you girls are much smarter than me, so I would really get your opinions.