Not 海伦, but I don't think your question is ethical

来源: wonderbear 于 2006-12-09 15:01:07 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (504 bytes)

1) you don't have a choice if you commit to do anything. Otherwise, don't commit.
2) if you're a professor, you should not date your student.
3) if you're married, you should not jeopadize your marriage.
4) if you have children, you should not challenge their respect for you.

Period. I bet Helen would say the same thing with me.

If you really want her, wait till the "teacher-student" type of relation is over.

Wanna play? play within the rules.



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• You nailed it, bear! And welcome back -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:09:16

• hehe -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (1 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:16:00

• what's cooking for dinner tonight in your family? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (182 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:23:09

• just kidding for the last part -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:30:06

• No kiddings. We can go. :-) -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:33:08

• I never cook dinner at home. We always order in or eat in restau -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (714 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:32:34

• Shake hands, blhw72. I honestly don't cook a whole -maggiemay_pei- ♀ 给 maggiemay_pei 发送悄悄话 (431 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:38:53

• Hahaha, hubby just asked me what smelly tofu was. because -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (299 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:45:29

• I never knew how to cook it, :) -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (27 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:54:15

• I mean smelly tofu -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:09:25

• we like american, french and italian both, mine plus Chinese -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (104 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:44:56

• I didn't used to like mexican food. Since hubby took me to -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (154 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:48:34

• aren't you glad we're in the U.S.? we have so many choices. :) -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:52:34

• absolutely -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:10:08

• I thought you'd rather have the choices in Shanghai, the -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (80 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:47:52

• just for food's sake, maybe, -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (144 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:51:28

• I miss China (for the foods) so much that I go every year -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (60 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:58:21

• Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh? -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (895 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:37:35

• 回复：Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (162 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:51:42

• she always broke the rules anyway, what does she care? LOL -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:59:23

• buying American-chinese food is a choice if you cook -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (110 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:00:57

• ???? I don't get it. -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (93 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:08:48

• Did I say I didn't know how to cook? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (94 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:16:57

• I hosted a few food parties already, thanksgiving, christmas... -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (102 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:20:48

• sorry, I misread you.By you, I meant people, plural. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:32:11

• apology acepted, :) thanks -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:38:30

• 回复：Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh? -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (1053 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:09:41

• 对美艳的金发MM说“不” ，但这个”不“字不是我说的 -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (2511 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:14:12

• Tks for such a long note. In simple words, you do -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (105 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:17:00

• I like your writings, though. I like you for not being -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (111 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:37:05

• Tks for your kind words. Btw, I can't -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (33 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:39:58

• You are a good-looking woman, too. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:55:24

• Perhaps you are not. Unless the blonde was really as dumb as oth -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:07:04

• Hey I am trying to be nice here: I can be in your category -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (422 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:23:19

• Cool down. :-) You misread what I wrote. I meant -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (171 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:30:49

• Merry Christmas! I believe you. She is a blonde after all. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (139 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:44:13

• :-). Merry xmas to you, too. -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 18:02:20

• I am a young tenure in an university.(good looking too :) Being --不厌-- ♀ 给 -不厌- 发送悄悄话 (316 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 19:42:43

• somehow I think he is too practical, somewhat gross. -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:18:02

• Thanks for labelling me. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:21:30

• welcome back to the reality, LOL -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:24:07

• I think you could be a great man in life, not in the -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (93 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:27:48

• Thanks. I am a 一言难尽的好坏人、强弱者、大小男人 -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (31 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:40:10

• seriously I wasn't labeling anybody, it's just a ethical discuss -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:42:58

• I'm sorry, shake hands, ok? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:44:17

• How about both hands? -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (40 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:50:53

• good idea -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (98 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:52:42

• consider it's done -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (36 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:02:24

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