Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh?

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回答: Should I, or should I not? 海伦？ 由 killara 于 2006-12-09 14:30:42

Excellent answering to my questions. To sum up:

1. There are rules in life one must abide, because a person becomes part of a social institution when s/he enters an organisation, be it a firm, a schoo, or a circle. There are things that one should/should not do, but want not/want to do. One can always choose to be happy by playing at the edge of the rules. For example, a professor-student position only lasts as long as a semester.

2. within a circle, there are also rules. But these rules are less explicit. There are more ethical norms than legal limitation. You do what your friends expect you of doing, for example. Doing it well does not guarantee your browny points. Not doing it, well almost certainly leave a bad taste in both your friends' and your mouth.

3. Your choices. You can choose to be a happy and free person if you are able to satisfy BOTH 1. and 2.

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• 回复：Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (162 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:51:42

• she always broke the rules anyway, what does she care? LOL -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 15:59:23

• buying American-chinese food is a choice if you cook -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (110 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:00:57

• ???? I don't get it. -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (93 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:08:48

• Did I say I didn't know how to cook? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (94 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:16:57

• I hosted a few food parties already, thanksgiving, christmas... -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (102 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:20:48

• sorry, I misread you.By you, I meant people, plural. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:32:11

• apology acepted, :) thanks -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:38:30

• 回复：Thanks. So rules, ethics and choices, huh? -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (1053 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:09:41

• 对美艳的金发MM说“不” ，但这个”不“字不是我说的 -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (2511 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:14:12

• Tks for such a long note. In simple words, you do -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (105 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:17:00

• I like your writings, though. I like you for not being -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (111 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:37:05

• Tks for your kind words. Btw, I can't -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (33 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:39:58

• You are a good-looking woman, too. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:55:24

• Perhaps you are not. Unless the blonde was really as dumb as oth -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:07:04

• Hey I am trying to be nice here: I can be in your category -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (422 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:23:19

• Cool down. :-) You misread what I wrote. I meant -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (171 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:30:49

• Merry Christmas! I believe you. She is a blonde after all. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (139 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:44:13

• :-). Merry xmas to you, too. -blhw72- ♀ 给 blhw72 发送悄悄话 blhw72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 18:02:20

• I am a young tenure in an university.(good looking too :) Being --不厌-- ♀ 给 -不厌- 发送悄悄话 (316 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 19:42:43

• somehow I think he is too practical, somewhat gross. -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:18:02

• Thanks for labelling me. -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:21:30

• welcome back to the reality, LOL -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:24:07

• I think you could be a great man in life, not in the -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (93 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:27:48

• Thanks. I am a 一言难尽的好坏人、强弱者、大小男人 -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (31 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:40:10

• seriously I wasn't labeling anybody, it's just a ethical discuss -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:42:58

• I'm sorry, shake hands, ok? -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:44:17

• How about both hands? -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (40 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:50:53

• good idea -wonderbear- ♀ 给 wonderbear 发送悄悄话 wonderbear 的博客首页 (98 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 16:52:42

• consider it's done -killara- ♂ 给 killara 发送悄悄话 killara 的博客首页 (36 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 17:02:24

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