我怎么才能不帮那个同事?

还是上次提过的同事. 她让我帮她测试我们另一个中国同事写的分析程序, 她说她已经搞通了大部分了, 最后那部分她通不过. 我以前和她讲过要充分信任其他同事的工作, 至少我是这样的, 只要设计正确, 具体程序细节怎么写由大家自己决定, 这样可以调动工作积极性.
她又不负责项目的QC工作,就自己在那里瞎搞,搞不通想让我帮忙. 我可真不愿意帮她,主要是没必要,和我工作有没有关系. 而且我对她这种到处都像想一手的做法非常反感.
我该怎么说面子上既过得去又能不帮她呢?

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• are u her boss? -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:42:58

• 回复：are u her boss? -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:45:41

• Nope. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:45:57

• Well. that even makes it easier. Just politely tell her: I would -知福惜福- ♀ (80 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:50:38

• I used this strategy today already, then she scheduled tomorrow -小妹妹~~- ♀ (81 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:54:31

• Keep using it and she will know what you really mean! haha. -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:55:32

• I agree with 知福, you have to be firm with her or -结婚十年- ♀ (329 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:03:03

• Just tell her: sweetheart, I would love to help you, but... -Kamioka- ♀ (980 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:32:51

• If calling her "sweetheart", would that make her think -gzlady- ♀ (135 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 09:25:57

• You can ask her to discuss her questions with the developer -gzlady- ♀ (283 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 07:58:02

• humm, I will try this strategy tomorrow. thanks! -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:01:10

• don't tell her that you don't agree with her testing method, she -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:34:15

• she will be pissed. -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:36:47

• Asking her to work with the original code developer -结婚十年- ♀ (48 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:09:04

• 她肯定知道这才是正确应该做的.问题是她知道她在管闲事.非要小妹妹帮忙. -知福惜福- ♀ (48 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:14:14

• the best way -Lantana- ♀ (414 bytes) () 11/05/2008 postreply 08:51:20