for which most people desire, not just for family.
If I were in your case, I wouldn't feel guilty to follow my heart. I believe that's what my husband wants to see about me. As independent adults, we both have the right and ability to pursue self satisfaction and happiness.
Vise versa, if my husband choses to stay home, i wouldn't want him to feel obliged to do house keeping or anything makes me happy, unless he wants to.