more than that, refer to "帮派嘛，就是大家嘻嘻哈哈用的一些称呼，什么亲家，相好。。。啥的"

supressing free communication and exchanging ideas, demeaning, put down, purposely twisiting the posts of independent members.

Good thing is that this is just an online forum, i don't have to take it too seriously, and it doesn't have effect on my life in reality.

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• 那是你的理解，与我的理解不同。 -菜农123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:12:45

• really? I never thought those 亲家，相好，闺蜜，can prevent me from stand -桃子苹果- ♀ (102 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:13:00

• 谁又不是呢？即使亲家相好闺蜜啥的，有不同意见也行啊，没谁说大家要统一思想啊。另外，你来中文坛子但总是 -菜农123- ♀ (215 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:16:35

• 是，闺蜜亲家相好，都有不同意见的，太多例子了。。 -桃子苹果- ♀ (71 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:18:45

• 就是就是～ -菜农123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:24:10

• thought this website was located in English world, and most --worldance-- ♀ (94 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:29:37

• 不太理解你这说法 - 当然，对你用英文没意见啊 - 只是不理解为什么大家生活在不讲中文的世界会使你想来这儿呢？ -davidhu1999- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:39:13

• see how living in western world changed Chinese --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:42:55

• 文化的根没有变。另外你太小看现在国内人的眼界了：-） -davidhu1999- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:44:23

• maybe, but ... --worldance-- ♀ (189 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:58:35

• without context, it's hard to pin point. --worldance-- ♀ (185 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:17:54

• Has that happened before? putting down or suppress different or -桃子苹果- ♀ (151 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:24:55

• anyone with normal IQ and reasonable language skill --worldance-- ♀ (104 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:34:16

• thanks my dear, heart warming. --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 13:00:27

• really？ then alot misunderstanding should not have happened.. -桃子苹果- ♀ (144 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:40:58

• not that simple as you said and i wished. thanks anyway. --worldance-- ♀ (87 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 12:51:49

• there is always exceptions, always some different voices, not in -桃子苹果- ♀ (351 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 13:00:34

• decency will always be recognized, regardless... --worldance-- ♀ (94 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 13:19:46

• 哈哈，not really。。。 -桃子苹果- ♀ (263 bytes) () 11/17/2017 postreply 13:30:47