more than that, refer to "帮派嘛，就是大家嘻嘻哈哈用的一些称呼，什么亲家，相好。。。啥的"

supressing free communication and exchanging ideas, demeaning, put down, purposely twisiting the posts of independent members.

Good thing is that this is just an online forum, i don't have to take it too seriously, and it doesn't have effect on my life in reality.