If you found out your husband visiting prostitute, what will you

Sorry I have to write in English, since this computer can't type Chinese.

I have accidentally read an email of my hu*****and, in which he gave a direction to his buddy how to get to either a massage place or a prostitute place in Thailand. Obviously, he visited there. I was so dissapointed... He was always great - knowledgable, rational, nice... he got Ph.D and have a wonderful job. I don't understand why he visit prostitute!! He and his buddy are both American, doding "business" in Thailand. I really could not see any benefit from the business. Maybe the sex with prostitute is what attracted them to go over there? Have sex with prostitute??? I was so confused now. I felt he is so dirty... I wanted to cry. But I have no tear...

What I can do?

A hopeless woman

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• 要是以前, 我的态度是宁为玉碎不为瓦全, 一拍两散.谁怕谁啊? -myhappyfamily- ♀ (354 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 11:37:51

• Thanks for your nice suggestions. -Hopelesslife- ♀ (205 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 11:49:42

• 有没有可能是婚前去过的呢 所以他还记得怎么去.?如果是婚前去过的, 就算了, 那是 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (991 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:17:09

• 就算和老公说, 也是好好说, 千万别吵架, 千万先别抱 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (101 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:35:33

• Your comments are very helpful. -hopelesslife- ♀ (342 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:47:11

• 坦白说, 我不知道那样的男人算不算多, 我老公有一朋友, 人很好, -myhappyfamily- ♀ (1218 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:31:19

• 下面daremighty的提议很好,你去看看,尽管我不同意他男人都一样的说法 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:38:07

• Myhappyfamily: you are a very nice girl. -hopelesslife- ♀ (406 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:59:47

• It's really hard to say. Deep inside, all men have this -snowwhite666- ♀ (256 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:08:03

• 衷心祝福你会获得你的幸福,我身边有不少这样的老公不忠的例子 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (713 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:24:07

• What you said was vey encouraging. -hopelesslife- ♀ (137 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:42:19

• BTY, the email found was just sent today. -Hopelesslife- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 11:51:06

• Well it's really up to u. If u absolutely can't stand it, -mooncutie812- ♀ (135 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:25:43

• 同意, 注意别染上病就是了. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:27:42

• I understand how hurtful it is。一定要理智，冲动没有用。 -snowwhite666- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:47:29

• 同意. 要理智地谈. 带情绪是可以理解的, 有80%的理智谈就行了. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:51:54

• 开诚布公地跟老公谈谈，不预设任何前提 -sansemao- ♀ (156 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:52:52

• 好姐妹，和我相比，我倒宁愿老公去找妓女了，唉。。。。。。 -brokemyheart- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:00:44

• 未必，妓女，不见得好到哪里去 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:03:48

• 男人是一样的，主要是大环境 -daremighty- ♂ (458 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:07:32

• 这个主意好~~ -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:14:22

• 读过一本心理学家写的关于婚外情的书.男人天生就是一夫多妻的 -snowwhite666- ♀ (97 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:47:39

• 实际上婚姻的定义和现代社会已经脱节了 -daremighty- ♂ (138 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:54:57

• 同意.有的夫妻很坦率,特别是老外,一发现有婚外情,马上离.中国 -snowwhite666- ♀ (67 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:01:31

• 我对婚姻的看法是对两人感情的一个衡量标准, 是把感情与 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (294 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:03:39

• 非常同意.如果不能承诺,那结婚干嘛.单身也没人说你的. -LeLe2007- ♀ (103 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 19:10:47

• Good suggestions. Very helpful. -Hopelesslife- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:02:45

• as long as he won't visit the prostitude is ok, it's man thing -lalayork- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:00:47

• Almost all men are dirty period. -laogudong- ♀ (55 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 16:30:42

• 我要是你马上离婚。这种男人太可恶了。 -mimimimi3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 17:26:14

• 招鸡的男人太恶心了!我要是你,搞清事实,就马上离. -love9999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 19:57:02