要是以前, 我的态度是宁为玉碎不为瓦全, 一拍两散.谁怕谁啊?

要是以前, 我的态度是宁为玉碎不为瓦全, 一拍两散.谁怕谁啊?
不过我看了很多婚外恋的文章,知道生活里有很多的不得已,妥协.
首先, 是发生在婚前还是婚后呢?
另外, 他有那些地址资料不代表他去过, 有时候可能是留着给朋友或者商业客户用的.
如果真的婚后去了, 以我个人看法是说明婚姻有某方面的问题.要沟通了解.
切记, 不要先吵, 因为你还没知道真实情况, 先了解情况.

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• Thanks for your nice suggestions. -Hopelesslife- ♀ (205 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 11:49:42

• 有没有可能是婚前去过的呢 所以他还记得怎么去.?如果是婚前去过的, 就算了, 那是 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (991 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:17:09

• 就算和老公说, 也是好好说, 千万别吵架, 千万先别抱 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (101 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:35:33

• Your comments are very helpful. -hopelesslife- ♀ (342 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:47:11

• 坦白说, 我不知道那样的男人算不算多, 我老公有一朋友, 人很好, -myhappyfamily- ♀ (1218 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:31:19

• 下面daremighty的提议很好,你去看看,尽管我不同意他男人都一样的说法 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:38:07

• Myhappyfamily: you are a very nice girl. -hopelesslife- ♀ (406 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 13:59:47

• It's really hard to say. Deep inside, all men have this -snowwhite666- ♀ (256 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:08:03

• 衷心祝福你会获得你的幸福,我身边有不少这样的老公不忠的例子 -myhappyfamily- ♀ (713 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:24:07

• What you said was vey encouraging. -hopelesslife- ♀ (137 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 14:42:19

• BTY, the email found was just sent today. -Hopelesslife- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 11:51:06

• Well it's really up to u. If u absolutely can't stand it, -mooncutie812- ♀ (135 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:25:43

• 同意, 注意别染上病就是了. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/27/2008 postreply 12:27:42