now we had a chat over IM

He was very upset because he felt that I accused him of lying, cheating and not caring. he said he didn't deserve that and then signed off. He said I was not a happy person, that he loves me but he will not be happy if he is under suspicion all the time.

I asked him how would he feel if I never picked up the phone on a weekend. He just said he was not guilty of anything, and the whole thing was very unfair. He wished me good luck.

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• 回复：now we had a chat over IM -happySingleMom- ♀ (265 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 09:36:28

• Don't put too much pressure on the American guys. They -xueen- ♀ (55 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 09:38:32

• I agree with that we should give personal space to our spouse. -gzlady- ♀ (209 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:10:36

• really disagree. amreican guy is teh same as chinese guy -fanfan88- ♀ (47 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:20:08

• we broke up exact the same way as you do. -Arashi- ♀ (169 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:37:33

• I do think your bfs made their cases. Trusting is not other -sansemao- ♀ (354 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 11:10:15

• wowo he said in that tone! then ur bf is not a nice guy. -fanfan88- ♀ (72 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 09:48:10

• but most American guys definitely need more personal -xueen- ♀ (149 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:25:09

• If personal space means some private time and space -gzlady- ♀ (242 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:35:51

• IN FACT, our chinese need some private time and space -fanfan88- ♀ (74 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:43:49

• Yes, human nature wise, there are not much differences -gzlady- ♀ (31 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:47:13

• American guys get turned off u suspect them for no specific -xueen- ♀ (162 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 09:59:58

• i disagree. american guy is the same as chinese guy. -fanfan88- ♀ (177 bytes) () 12/17/2007 postreply 10:18:40