now we had a chat over IM
He was very upset because he felt that I accused him of lying, cheating and not caring. he said he didn't deserve that and then signed off. He said I was not a happy person, that he loves me but he will not be happy if he is under suspicion all the time.
I asked him how would he feel if I never picked up the phone on a weekend. He just said he was not guilty of anything, and the whole thing was very unfair. He wished me good luck.