ur mom is correct about the kid...
ActuaLLY nothing is more important than kindness(love u and ur baby). if the man really loves u, he should care about ur feeling toward ur baby..
see what my bf did for me: he always asks what i like and want. I told him just do what he wants and not only do what i like. he said: if u r happy and i will be happy. i want do whatever u wanna and like as long as i am with u. I want u to be the happiest one ...
see, Dec 11, both of us will take another one day off work . he said he will give me a surprise that day.. mmm
in my opinion, at ur situation, when dating, the number one is to find whether the guy u r going to date loves ur baby or not. in this world, this kind of guy is there, u need to be very smart to find him..
good luck