why so many people here think the Hong in 永远的姗姗 is a poor one?

来源: 知福惜福 于 2007-11-14 14:14:55 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (560 bytes)

She as adult, chooses whatever life she wants and whatever man she wants to be parter.And also, she choose to give a birth to 姗姗. Of course from her story, she obviously does not make wise choice. But I really don't feel sorry for her at all. Instead of I look down upon such woman! It is her choice and leave with it! But when you choose to be a mother, you have to stand up and take the responsibility.
And I feel most angry about the part when she chooses to dump her poor child. How shameful she is as a woman, a mother, even a human being! _:mad:

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• I am with you :) -flh- ♀ 给 flh 发送悄悄话 flh 的博客首页 (74 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 14:23:28

• I still feel sorry for her. How she live with her choice? sigh.. -findapro1- ♀ 给 findapro1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 14:27:00

• how? like millions of single mothers are doing everyday! -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (134 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 14:32:40

• 俺自私,但让俺扔掉俺娃,门都没有... -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 14:38:54

• I understand your censure about Hong’s leaving her -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (419 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 15:37:02

• First of all, I don't think she made a mistakes by choosing the -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (405 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 15:52:54

• admire your sense of responsibility and commitment -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (123 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 16:09:19

• From what she did you could tell how she was taught in her famil -everafter- ♀ 给 everafter 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 15:54:42

• I can -everafter- ♀ 给 everafter 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 15:52:14

• I can't forgive a mother who abandoned her own child. -everafter- ♀ 给 everafter 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 15:52:53

• 作为一个母亲, 要离开自己的孩子都是很痛苦的, -红尘一笑- ♀ 给 红尘一笑 发送悄悄话 (175 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 16:03:39

• Agree. She thinks she can overcome such terrible feelings -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (39 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 16:15:30

• 很难看的出她会很对自己孩子的思念和歉疚的. -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 17:13:09

• 有哪一个做妈妈的可以望记孕育一个生命的感觉？无论她怎么样努力，放弃孩子会是她心头的疼，追求幸福没有错，可应要对自己当初的选择负责 -贴心宝贝- ♀ 给 贴心宝贝 发送悄悄话 贴心宝贝 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 16:08:43

• agree, but in China, there are quite some mothers who do that. -babylisa- ♀ 给 babylisa 发送悄悄话 (280 bytes) () 11/14/2007 postreply 20:56:56

• I would have never abandoned my child under any -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (12 bytes) () 11/15/2007 postreply 07:16:05

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