why so many people here think the Hong in 永远的姗姗 is a poor one?

She as adult, chooses whatever life she wants and whatever man she wants to be parter.And also, she choose to give a birth to 姗姗. Of course from her story, she obviously does not make wise choice. But I really don't feel sorry for her at all. Instead of I look down upon such woman! It is her choice and leave with it! But when you choose to be a mother, you have to stand up and take the responsibility.
And I feel most angry about the part when she chooses to dump her poor child. How shameful she is as a woman, a mother, even a human being! _:mad: