ok ladies, continue to talk..

来源: fanfan88 于 2007-10-01 12:43:05 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (4172 bytes)

1. My bf lives in VA. His companies do business in IT consulting and government reseller. I do nto want to talk more about that as I am afraid in that forum, maybe some IT ladies work at his company.


2. About $250m. My bf did tell me that the company’s 2007 income is $250m currently. He worked hard to hit $1000mm. but still cannot. That is the reason that I was surprised that that lady said about $250m. Yes he is really rich guy in our eyes. His divorce, which lasted for a long time, costed him tons of money. Just lawyer fee costed him $250,000. But he joked that why the divorce is so expensive. His friend said that it is because it is worth!

3. Chinese ladies here always think that it is hard or impossible for a Chinese girl to date or panshang a rich and talented and comparatively not old guy. So when I posted my story here, tons of bad words came out. But you ladies ignored a thing , that is, I am excellent too!!!! Many ladies thought I was bragging. You wrong!!! My family thought the same ways as u ladies before. They always said : fanfan, just wait until you get it!! But the truth and my experience since my 12 years old changed their thought to me completely, esp. my dad, a strong and capable man!!! Someday, on the phone, he said to me : fanfan, you are right, everything u said (although it was impossible in our eyes) have become the truth. You are my and our pride.

4. I am very honest. Generally girls are afraid that their bfs do nto like their strong personality or too strong. I directly told my bf that I am very goal-oriented, I never failed with what I wanted. My bf said: knew you were very smart... I will root for .now I have to make *me* your next project so you work very hard not to fail at it too... lol ;)

5. I have ever asked my bf why he is interested in me(I thought he just likes pretty girl). Here is his answer: No, you silly girl... but being very pretty does not hurt!!

I like a few things about you, right from the start:
- confident, energetic, and pasionate
-know what u want
- good career
- intelligent
- good with fashion
- beautiful
- fun to chat with
So, I love you for MORE than just your looks... but I really do like your looks too...

My bf deleted his profile from Yahoo Personals before our 3rd date. I think those online dating ladies should know what it means!!

In my eyes, my bf is very talented guy. nto a lot of guys can be a vice president iin a large internatinal IT companies in his early 30's!! and then founded 2 profitable companies!!

6. I think I am different from most Chinese ladies including Deng Wendi.
I acted not like most Chinese ladies who are humble, etc. I am not humble at all! Why I have to be modest ??? unnecessary!! Also, the outstanding personality of mine is : I always know that I want!!! I always passionately work hard on what I want. I am always teh controller of life!! I am never the slave of the life!!

I am different from Deng Wendi because I do not and will not marry an old guy who can be my father ! I am 29, my bf 41, perfect age match!! Also, I am selfish , I just pay attention on my enjoyment . It means that I just get enjoyed on what I get by my own effort and energy!! I am seeking a guy whose income is not low because I will not be happy if his income is lower than I( IN the usa, generally, high income shows a person’s ability!) Please do not compare me with anyone else. I am myself!

7. somebody challenged me about the difference among cash, profit, and gross income, or the like. I must tell u that I am at much higher level than you at this aspect. (If I am telling u CPA is one of my licenses, do you believe?). To evaluate a person’s income, esp. those partners. You cannot just see his book income. Under the help of the good accountant, his profit could be 0 or loss to avoid be taxed. But his cash distribution could be millions!!! And these cash distribution is free of tax in his personal tax return.

8. As for 修不修得成正果. I guess just like you ladies cannot guarantee that you will not divorce, right?



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• 我有个不情之请，可不可以兽一下你的照片呢？很想看美女。 -feimama- ♀ 给 feimama 发送悄悄话 feimama 的博客首页 (33 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:46:08

• 要看要看！！ -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:59:54

• make sure you know how much alimony he pays. it can be a killer -clipmom- ♀ 给 clipmom 发送悄悄话 clipmom 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:47:05

• First of all, tks for sharing your story. Secondly, no offense, -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (645 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:51:10

• Really tired of hearing you talking about $$$$........ -kose- ♀ 给 kose 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:51:43

• Let her talk. It's a free forum. It seems like Wendy Deng is jus -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (165 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:54:39

• Well, guys likes to lie about their money, and woman -kose- ♀ 给 kose 发送悄悄话 (29 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:58:27

• I don't know about that. As far as I know, the American guys I -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (319 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:03:12

• Does your bf have any kids? -questiongirl123- ♀ 给 questiongirl123 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:55:06

• yea,make sure he doesn't pay tons of money for child support -臭臭妈妈- ♀ 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (9 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:04:45

• I really don't think company's income equals to personal one -memoryrong- ♀ 给 memoryrong 发送悄悄话 (144 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:55:16

• I am working in the same field as you discribed your -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (465 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:55:56

• 才DATE了４次，怎能把一个人的FINANCIAL情况搞清楚呢？ -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:00:56

• Either herself or her BF has a good sense of humor :)) -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:06:05

• That would be her bf. :-))) -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:09:51

• I know you like this guy, but you should be careful -xueen- ♀ 给 xueen 发送悄悄话 xueen 的博客首页 (132 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:42:20

• 你的男朋友好象也很喜欢谈钱这事哈,才出去和你认识了3次,就把公司收入, -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (324 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 12:58:44

• 我看他俩挺般配，都爱谈钱 -kose- ♀ 给 kose 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:00:58

• AGREE. -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:03:44

• 女的爱听，男的就拣爱听得吹呗，这还不容易，反正她又没看到 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (8 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:06:15

• 俺觉的年SALES在＄２５０M的公司的CEO在网上找DATE，很荒唐。 -AP24- ♀ 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:26:01

• One more question, did you bf -questiongirl123- ♀ 给 questiongirl123 发送悄悄话 (76 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:01:06

• FANFAN小姐，我决定不再看你的贴子也不回了，因为你根本就跟我们不是一个档次的。你的档次太高，去你该去的地吧。 -GP88- ♀ 给 GP88 发送悄悄话 (106 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:02:58

• 我没时间去考古,你看过她所有的贴子?我问的那两个问题她有提到过吗? -questiongirl123- ♀ 给 questiongirl123 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:04:34

• I root for Fanfan -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (286 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:06:21

• Sweetheart, nobody personally attacks her but speaks freely -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (75 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:08:49

• 回复：Sweetheart, nobody personally attacks her but speaks freely -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (528 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:15:15

• QUESTION和attacks还是有很大区别的吧? :) -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:17:35

• Again, sweetheart, when you are protesting others don't give -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (245 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:18:53

• 回复：回复：Sweetheart, nobody personally attacks her but speaks freel -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:21:17

• 那样的英文水平大家有目共睹，她还好意思brag,那我们逗逗乐 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (269 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:22:05

• 同意你.但是我不觉得大家是在攻击她,只不过根据她的言论发表自己的想法而已嘛. -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (108 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:11:53

• 同意你！我宁愿看到中国JMs蒸蒸日上（人才+钱财），而不是 -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (331 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:19:30

• I hope there are more Modorcks our there, so we Chinese women, -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:22:35

• 对老头不感兴趣，非常佩服邓，这个女人有大智慧 -lookatme..- ♀ 给 lookatme.. 发送悄悄话 lookatme.. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:25:30

• an old men like Modorck, I would definitely be interested. Oh, -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (59 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:27:31

• there are many many interested girls, but only one succeeded -esmie- ♀ 给 esmie 发送悄悄话 esmie 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:37:32

• 是地是地，大家共同致富嘛 -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:28:43

• Yeah, she is fighting for rich white men with other -xueen- ♀ 给 xueen 发送悄悄话 xueen 的博客首页 (60 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:26:19

• can't agree more -goingunder- ♀ 给 goingunder 发送悄悄话 (588 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 17:54:23

• sweetheart, lots of men post their online dating files in differ -sfla- ♀ 给 sfla 发送悄悄话 sfla 的博客首页 (48 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:07:30

• I understand you are very impressed by his success -xueen- ♀ 给 xueen 发送悄悄话 xueen 的博客首页 (143 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:18:15

• Also have you had a physical relationship with him yet? -xueen- ♀ 给 xueen 发送悄悄话 xueen 的博客首页 (78 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:31:48

• Not yet, but I predict, it will be soon ;-) -acme- ♀ 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:36:41

• I think it's quite obvious what he wants. -xueen- ♀ 给 xueen 发送悄悄话 xueen 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 13:39:32

• Thanks for sharing. I personally -back-to-dating- ♀ 给 back-to-dating 发送悄悄话 (874 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 16:23:34

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