ok ladies, continue to talk..

1. My bf lives in VA. His companies do business in IT consulting and government reseller. I do nto want to talk more about that as I am afraid in that forum, maybe some IT ladies work at his company.


2. About $250m. My bf did tell me that the company’s 2007 income is $250m currently. He worked hard to hit $1000mm. but still cannot. That is the reason that I was surprised that that lady said about $250m. Yes he is really rich guy in our eyes. His divorce, which lasted for a long time, costed him tons of money. Just lawyer fee costed him $250,000. But he joked that why the divorce is so expensive. His friend said that it is because it is worth!

3. Chinese ladies here always think that it is hard or impossible for a Chinese girl to date or panshang a rich and talented and comparatively not old guy. So when I posted my story here, tons of bad words came out. But you ladies ignored a thing , that is, I am excellent too!!!! Many ladies thought I was bragging. You wrong!!! My family thought the same ways as u ladies before. They always said : fanfan, just wait until you get it!! But the truth and my experience since my 12 years old changed their thought to me completely, esp. my dad, a strong and capable man!!! Someday, on the phone, he said to me : fanfan, you are right, everything u said (although it was impossible in our eyes) have become the truth. You are my and our pride.

4. I am very honest. Generally girls are afraid that their bfs do nto like their strong personality or too strong. I directly told my bf that I am very goal-oriented, I never failed with what I wanted. My bf said: knew you were very smart... I will root for .now I have to make *me* your next project so you work very hard not to fail at it too... lol ;)

5. I have ever asked my bf why he is interested in me(I thought he just likes pretty girl). Here is his answer: No, you silly girl... but being very pretty does not hurt!!

I like a few things about you, right from the start:
- confident, energetic, and pasionate
-know what u want
- good career
- intelligent
- good with fashion
- beautiful
- fun to chat with
So, I love you for MORE than just your looks... but I really do like your looks too...

My bf deleted his profile from Yahoo Personals before our 3rd date. I think those online dating ladies should know what it means!!

In my eyes, my bf is very talented guy. nto a lot of guys can be a vice president iin a large internatinal IT companies in his early 30's!! and then founded 2 profitable companies!!

6. I think I am different from most Chinese ladies including Deng Wendi.
I acted not like most Chinese ladies who are humble, etc. I am not humble at all! Why I have to be modest ??? unnecessary!! Also, the outstanding personality of mine is : I always know that I want!!! I always passionately work hard on what I want. I am always teh controller of life!! I am never the slave of the life!!

I am different from Deng Wendi because I do not and will not marry an old guy who can be my father ! I am 29, my bf 41, perfect age match!! Also, I am selfish , I just pay attention on my enjoyment . It means that I just get enjoyed on what I get by my own effort and energy!! I am seeking a guy whose income is not low because I will not be happy if his income is lower than I( IN the usa, generally, high income shows a person’s ability!) Please do not compare me with anyone else. I am myself!

7. somebody challenged me about the difference among cash, profit, and gross income, or the like. I must tell u that I am at much higher level than you at this aspect. (If I am telling u CPA is one of my licenses, do you believe?). To evaluate a person’s income, esp. those partners. You cannot just see his book income. Under the help of the good accountant, his profit could be 0 or loss to avoid be taxed. But his cash distribution could be millions!!! And these cash distribution is free of tax in his personal tax return.

8. As for 修不修得成正果. I guess just like you ladies cannot guarantee that you will not divorce, right?