online dating question

I just met a guy two weeks ago. We've met twice and are planning for the 3rd date when he will cook a dinner followed by a 007 movie at his place. I wanted to find out if he is interested in sex ONLY, so I asked him what his intention is for the night. Here is his answer. I'd like to hear your comments and advices. Up to now, I like this person but not sure how much he likes me.

Hi XX,

Just to clarify my intentions, as I can be rather suggestive and flirty.

I am comfortable with intimacy, yet it does not mean attachment to me. A typical guy answer, but we are wired differently anyways. That being said, I do not need sex, even though I may like it. I have discovered that the building of that energy gives me life and fortitude.

I believe it would be too early on to answer any type of LTR question. I do not think we know enough about each other. Of course there is potential here, but we have only been on one meet and greet, a date and exchanged a few emails.

So just to clarify, my intention is to find out how we can have fun together. It is different in every relationship and it does not mean that having fun is sex. Even though it is fun. There are many other things that I like to do that are fun and rejuvenating.

So if you would feel more comfortable going out to eat on Saturday I would be fine with that. I am in no rush, I have the rest of my life in front of me.

Thanks

XX

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• 他想什么，他说得挺清楚了，也给你选择。你想怎么样呢？？ -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 16:44:22

• 回复：他想什么，他说得挺清楚了，也给你选择。你想怎么样呢？？ -NordstromFan- ♀ (64 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 16:50:39

• 我今天被资本家逼得比较郁闷，本人理解如下： -胡桃架子-- ♀ (61 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:10:28

• 这个精辟! -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:33:14

• 汗，人家的原话啊~~~~ -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:46:31

• 呵呵,先吃饭再吃人也不错啊, 你自己随心所欲了 -非典型性淑女- ♀ (89 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 16:52:51

• 馋猫哪儿有不爱荤腥的？他在试探你，如果你没挺住他就CI一口，俺的意见是挺住 -alazycatinsd- ♀ (114 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:00:07

• 呵呵，依我看，这人挺正经的，人家不是说了吗，现在没有任何relationship -200CC- ♀ (86 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:10:35

• 回复：馋猫哪儿有不爱荤腥的？他在试探你，如果你没挺住他就CI一口，俺的意见是挺住 -NordstromFan- ♀ (63 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:09:55

• 感觉这人很直截了当 -AliceWonder- ♀ (138 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:06:28

• 好像是在说我。惭愧地溜走~~ -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:08:25

• 别走。。。留下殿后。。。 -AliceWonder- ♀ (41 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:10:18

• 开玩笑啦：)我家里老人生病了，我得做饭呢，真走了~~ -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:28:06

• 对了对了 -AliceWonder- ♀ (62 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:08:38

• 回复：对了对了 -NordstromFan- ♀ (26 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:12:40

• 西人基本都不吃这套的 -非典型性淑女- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 18:13:22

• if you like him, go, if not sure, go out for dinner :) -ne0987- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 17:54:42

• 看起来这人挺诚恳的. 如果你感觉他是让你放心的那种, -longhair- ♀ (94 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 18:20:44

• 我觉得他的意思是：没打算一定要上床，但是见机行事，如果有机会当然也不会错过，但是上了床也不代表要和你确立关系，毕竟认识的时间挺短 -geegal- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 18:22:10

• I think he's a bit offended by your question. -tianfu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 19:32:47

• Of course, I would be too. 这问题实在欠涵养。 -糖果果- ♀ (4 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 19:36:22

• 我觉得他可能对你兴趣不大 -球球姐姐- ♀ (233 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 20:02:45

• 回复：online dating question -julie116- ♀ (1502 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 20:09:52

• 赞一句，很诚心详细的建议。加几句给LZ, -糖果果- ♀ (313 bytes) () 03/04/2009 postreply 20:57:51