online dating question

来源: 2009-03-04 16:40:49 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:

I just met a guy two weeks ago. We've met twice and are planning for the 3rd date when he will cook a dinner followed by a 007 movie at his place. I wanted to find out if he is interested in sex ONLY, so I asked him what his intention is for the night. Here is his answer. I'd like to hear your comments and advices. Up to now, I like this person but not sure how much he likes me.

Hi XX,

Just to clarify my intentions, as I can be rather suggestive and flirty.

I am comfortable with intimacy, yet it does not mean attachment to me. A typical guy answer, but we are wired differently anyways. That being said, I do not need sex, even though I may like it. I have discovered that the building of that energy gives me life and fortitude.

I believe it would be too early on to answer any type of LTR question. I do not think we know enough about each other. Of course there is potential here, but we have only been on one meet and greet, a date and exchanged a few emails.

So just to clarify, my intention is to find out how we can have fun together. It is different in every relationship and it does not mean that having fun is sex. Even though it is fun. There are many other things that I like to do that are fun and rejuvenating.

So if you would feel more comfortable going out to eat on Saturday I would be fine with that. I am in no rush, I have the rest of my life in front of me.

Thanks

XX