小薇我试着理解为

保留口德给予对方无限希望。我仍然害怕自己忘了这一点而导致成事不足败事有余。正如我老爹当年很装蒜地对我说，我现在学他很装蒜地重复，某种意义上，根本颜面这种东西不是与生俱来就平等的。Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope. I am still a little afraid of missing something if I forget that, as my father snobbishly suggested, and I snobbishly repeat, a sense of the fundamental decencies is parcelled out unequally at birth.

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• 就是说他老爹让他对人说话或评论时要给人留颜面，因为有些人承受能力强，但有些人抗击打能力弱。 -sportwoman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/10/2012 postreply 11:18:45

• xiaoman, I think you are right. Thank you -同学小薇- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/10/2012 postreply 13:48:45

• 抱歉!那个to fake a clove of garlic 应该不是dirty word，对吗？ -sportwoman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/10/2012 postreply 13:38:25

• 我一般比较谨慎，都查过了才用的，希望不会有我不懂的歧义。 -sportwoman- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/10/2012 postreply 13:44:38