回复：为什么?

赞同不少人的观点，不要再主动找他了。这个人可能已经long gone。 他不来找你，已经很明显他撤了，你就忍住不要再纠缠了。越纠缠，越没有魅力。

牛奶倒了，问“为什么”是浪费时间，先擦好桌面，洗好杯子。

你真要问为什么，从你有限的几个短信上看，语气带有质问的性质，愤怒的情绪掩盖不住，有些男人很反感女人讲话用这样的语气，加上涉及到他的心肝宝贝女儿，人家肯定不干了。撤也是对的，否则以后对他遗患无穷。

女人也要努力做一个self sufficient 的女人，自己先快乐起来，太needy会吓跑男人。

他要万一再回头来找你，你就利用机会好好讲话，好好沟通。有话好好说,愤怒的情绪来源于entitlement, 觉得自己配得什么样的待遇，而对方没有达到，就气愤了，其实，真正的爱是付出。

就你的感受，也许你可以这样讲？　“I am sorry I was angry, I do love you. I missed you, I was so much looking forward to see you on weekend , just to be with you. I know you had to spend time with your daughter,I　wish I could have been more understandable, but it was so hard for me not being able to see you . I guess I need to learn not to be too attached to you.I did feel I was insignificant, ignored and wish we could learn how to plan weekends  together ....."