hello, enjoy reading your story very much.sorry i cann't type in chinese.
hope you are coping well for whatever you have been going through recently.
# 1 in terms of dating people who came from different culture background it is very easy for to mis-interpret their actions/words.
#2 moving in with someone is a big decision. asking youself how much confident you are for this relationship ? do you have a backup plan ?
#3 never loss your own identity
#4 be aware of those "red flag "
# 5 as far as we stand up with our own feet, tomorrow will be fabulous !!
best wish