回复：就是太相信他了，暴漏了真实的自己，我现在的原则，还是做自己，要磨合，但是一定双方都舒服才好，

I completely understand you and support you. When you felt loved, you trusted him with all your heart. However, the reality hurt you and destroyed your love fantasy. That hurts. We, that generation of Chinese woman never learned how to separate the love and reality WHEN we grow up. We learned it now AFTER we “grown up”.