我的本意是想stop you getting too involved with the story and writer, 既然你不理解,那我菊个例子
这样说吧:
if someone told me a story about how 你耍手腕嫁给your hubby,我不会judge you from her one side story as I dont know you personally, 但是我也不会因为她对你的attidue攻击她的人品,也许她就是不喜欢你,看不惯你的所作所为..
网上的事何必较真儿..
btw,我工作还算stable,boss is nice,我暂时不会resign..