你同意dating is not to look for a husband, should be for fun吗？

这个人＂教导＂我说，You should not be dating only to find the perfect hu*****and. You should be dating to have fun, To expand your horizons. To gain experience. To learn about yourself, about men and about various types and depths of relationships.
If the above ideas are your goals, then you will not easily be disappointed.

当然他没象８９JJ 说dating just for fun. 我们国人同意dating is for fun, not for a hu*****and? 我怎么觉得我就是为了找个志同道和的人生伴侣呢？你们呢？该怎么回他？

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• That's the one-year objective -deep-sea- ♀ (51 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 14:55:11

• 不知道有这么精确的时间观念。：）Thanks -wonderlv- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:22:06

• Roughly:))) -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:35:21

• 这话要是朋友告诉我，我觉得没错。这话要是跟我date的男人说的，我就 -89MM- ♀ (159 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 14:55:45

• 说的好，如果是KT的人说，没错。如果是在date的男人说，错！ -AP24- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:17:45

• 就是，内外有别! -wonderlv- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:19:19

• 我是觉得他说的不对劲。可能是东西方观念不同。 -wonderlv- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:21:05

• 回复：你同意dating is not to look for a husband, should be for fun吗？ -Deedeedee- ♀ (275 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:30:02

• Not Only, But also -猪胖子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:34:19

• 同意 -Deedeedee- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:38:59

• 我觉得这样的人有try to manipulate you 的嫌疑. No one should tell you what t -翩翩~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 15:46:55

• Ask him what kind of fun he is talking about. -movingmountain- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 18:10:01

• 啊，我怎么觉得他说的是大实话？ -alazycatinsd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 19:04:33

• 他说的没错。 关键是，你和他是不是在同一个level 上。 有什么不同意见，就表达出来呗。 -sunnylily789- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/21/2010 postreply 22:27:49

• 同意 -waterfallgarden- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/22/2010 postreply 09:57:41

• Agree. Dating is for fun. -pollyli- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/22/2010 postreply 10:07:48