Who knows all those roles.
If I am date now after so many KT posts, I don't think I would marry my LG then. For almost 7 years of marriage, I feel lucky to have him in my life. So far, I am not regret my decision 7 years ago.
So, just use your own feelings, do what ever you want and try the best for yourself.
I like you very much, my words and others, you should think it is just a reference only.
Best luck!