回复：暂时分开吧。楼上很多MM讲得都很对

我刚刚经历了和你一样的经历：分手在相识五个月那天。我问他在他开始找女朋友是有过什么期望。 他说：i know what do you want - you have an angada in your mind, 1 year engage, 2 year get married. at this stage of my life, i can't give any commitment to you. that was my last marrige, (he divorced 2 times )i will never never get married again. i can give you commitment from my heart, but no paper. if yo want the paper, i am the wrong person.
然后他就消失了，我打过一个电话，发过两条短信，no answer, disappered.. 2 month now. i understand your feeling.big hug to you...
看过一篇文章， 是的， he is just not that into you, otherwise, he will 乖乖的双手奉上自己的自由和一切。
我也是想要婚姻的，可是我现在也犹豫了。找到一个对的人真难。MM 仔细考虑吧。